First, the correct concept of children's sex education 1, opportunity education
The best way of education is to seize small opportunities in daily life, such as intimate scenes in TV programs or short stories in newspapers, which can be used as opportunities for sex education.
2. The concept of educational privacy
Tell them that some parts of the body are very private, and others can't see or touch them. Of course, you can't look at and touch other people's private parts to avoid the recurrence of such games.
Children's gender education can be taught through daily life. Don't shy away from answering.
Parents should never be vague or avoid answering. Parents can tell their children the difference in body structure between men and women in a normal tone. Telling stories and watching cartoon sex education pictures are all acceptable ways for children of this age.
4. Prevention of sexual assault education
It is also necessary to teach children to prevent sexual assault and educate children not to let others touch their private parts. If someone insists on doing that, they should tell their parents at once. When the baby is one year old, it is best to start sleeping in separate rooms to avoid being seen by parents.
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Second, the misunderstanding of children's sex education 1, don't be rude.
When children's words and behaviors involve sexual issues, such as playing house games, touching genitals with their hands or swearing, parents' reprimand and abuse can easily lead to children's cowardly behavior, and they dare not stick to the truth, which is not conducive to the development of independence.
The child is too young to understand.
When children are young, it is time for sex education. At this time, parents can provide their children with correct sexual knowledge, which can prevent children from blindly looking for negative sexual information and treat them correctly even if they see negative sexual information.
3. Parents can't talk about it.
The best sex education is opportunity education, which is best carried out when children are confused about sex, and such opportunities often occur at home, which depends on the careful observation of parents. Pushing sex education to schools is a way for parents to shirk their responsibilities.
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4. Children can imitate.
Some parents think that letting children know the details of sex may induce them to imitate. It is behavior and details that reveal the mystery of sex, dilute children's curiosity about sex and avoid children's blind attempts.
Step 5 curb their curiosity
A high degree of curiosity is the driving force for unswerving pursuit of truth. If parents reprimand rather than answer, it will stifle children's curiosity. Suppressing curiosity will only make children ignorant and distort their understanding of sex.
The best sex education is opportunity education, so parents must observe it carefully.
6. It is not wise to cheat children in good faith, such as telling them that they are here to pick them up, or jumping out of a stone like the Monkey King. Because white lies are seen by children, they will also become hypocritical. But the child is not responsible for this result.
7. Insist on self-study.
Many parents think that sex education is irrelevant. In the future, with the growth of age and the accumulation of knowledge, I will naturally learn the basic knowledge of physical health, and I can learn by myself or follow suit when I grow up. When children understand this, parents can only make up for it.
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