People usually say that a child is a blank sheet of paper, and what kind of person you want him to be when he grows up can be drawn on this paper. It's true. Family education has a profound influence on children. When children grow up, they often look at everyone and everything according to the "three views" they learned in infancy.

Family education will affect a person's personality cognitive thinking, thus determining the direction of children's life. Parents are children's first teachers and lifelong mentors.

Michelle, the wife of the former president of the United States, is a very independent person. She grew up in a very relaxed family environment. Although the prejudice and discrimination against black people in American society is very serious, parents do not accept their fate, but set an example and educate their children to do their best to get what they want.

When Michelle has an argument with others, including her parents, her parents always support her daughter to fight for her own expectations. They believe that children should always live an adult's life, and they should handle their own affairs with their own thinking. In the process of children's growth, parents are only their supporters and helpers.

Under the guidance of her parents, Michelle gradually became a person who followed her inner voice. Her brave, frank and fearless personality accompanied her to grow up all the way until she met Obama, who also became excellent on her own and became the wife of the first black president of the United States.

In the political struggle of opponents killing each other against the president's husband, the strong Michelle still faced powerful opponents fearlessly with the magic weapon she learned from her parents when she was young, and intelligently assisted Obama to achieve career success.

However, when Obama, the president's husband, once clashed with Michelle's desire for family life because of his busy work, their marriage encountered a bottleneck. Open-minded Michelle obeyed her inner call, influenced Obama with affection, voluntarily returned to her family, and succeeded in making them "us".

Family education has a great influence on children's growth, and sometimes it is strong enough to determine the development direction of a country.

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When Huang Lei's daughter Duoduo was 8 years old, she was able to speak fluent English on the program "Where is Dad?". . Later, she also translated three English books. 65,438+02 years old, independently designed Barbie dresses and her own dresses. What is even more amazing is that she actually introduced her design concept in English.

/kloc-When he was 0/2 years old, Duo Duo became the envy of many parents. Huang Lei and Sun Li were asked the secret of how to teach such a good child.

Huang Lei said airily, "Your child is you." Sun Li also smiled easily and said, "As long as there is love at home, children will grow up to be the best."

Huang Lei and Sun Li's answers are simple and plain, but they show the importance of family education. Parents are role models for children's growth and their roles.

As we all know, Huang Lei is like a duck to water in his career, but he is just an ordinary father in front of his children. He has no celebrity shelf, no superior parental role, only equal love and companionship among family members.

Sun Li once said, "I seldom go into the kitchen because Huang Lei cooks for us." Yes, Huang Lei said she was willing to cook for Sun Li all her life. Nothing makes a child feel most relaxed and warm in the family than hearing and seeing the kindness of his parents and the resonance between harps. To give children the best education, the first thing is to create a loving family atmosphere.

Huang Lei is also a very diligent person. When he is studying a lot, Huang Lei is also studying beside him, instead of playing mobile phones and games. Duoduo has finished his homework and likes reading Disney English books. Huang Lei often studies English with her and translates English works with Duo Duo. Huang Lei's own actions made her daughter deeply understand that companionship is the longest confession. More importantly, Huang Lei's way of teaching by example has profoundly influenced Duoduo's growth direction.

In the warm and relaxed family education, Duoduo is free to grow into a caring girl. Under the influence of parents' continuous learning and growth, Duo Duo loves books as much as his father. When Duoduo was asked what she would bring when she traveled in the documentary "When We were in Love for 20 Years", she blurted out: books.

There are no book lovers who don't like learning, and there are no outstanding people. Huang Lei and his daughter Duoduo are the best examples.

Parents hold books every day, and children don't always want to play; Mahjong sounds at home every day, and the sound of children reading will disappear. What kind of family, what kind of parents, what kind of children, parents use their own family education cultivation, in a subtle influence on children.

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Teacher Sun Jingxiu, a famous children educator in China, said: Children's ears are tape recorders, children's eyes are cameras, and our words and deeds are clearly recorded by children. It can be seen that parents' lifestyle methods are always imitated by children.

In ancient times, Ceng Zi's wife lied to coax her children not to go to the fair with her, saying: As long as you don't come with me, I will kill pigs for you when I come back. When she came back from the market, Ceng Zi killed the pig. His wife blamed him and said, I am a child of Doby. How can you really kill pigs? Ceng Zi answered her: The child is still young, and everything he says and does is imitating us. If you cheat him now, he will cheat you and others in the future.

The story of Ceng Zi killing pigs illustrates the importance of family education. Parents educate their children to be honest and trustworthy. If Mrs. Ceng Zi cheats a child once, it will be the second time, n times ... Children who grow up in such a "cheating" family education mode will treat their next generation with cheating education in the future, and generations will "cheat", which will hurt not one person but the whole family.

As the saying goes, parents are a mirror of children, and the mirror that children face every day will truly reflect their own appearance. By the same token, if parents are infected with bad hobbies such as pornography, gambling, drugs and theft, they will have a suggestive effect on their children, and most of them will go astray and embark on the road of crime when they grow up.

Healthy family education will correctly cultivate children's "three views", and what parents teach their children by example determines what kind of people their children will become when they grow up. Family education is the foundation of children's "growth building" in life. As long as the foundation is solid and solid, the child's "growth building" will not give up halfway.