Parents should learn to skillfully use the educational factors in the environment to educate their children indirectly. In public, they can let children consider the feelings of others from the perspective of others, so as to achieve the effect of educating children. Tell them that such behavior will bring trouble to others and make others feel that their children are uneducated and uneducated.
The way to teach children in public places should not be too soft. Children often behave abnormally in front of others, some children become clever because of shyness, and some children become more naughty when they know that their parents will not criticize themselves in front of others. Parents must be careful not to educate because of fear. Children are only in public places, so parents need to pay attention to educating their children in a way that is neither too soft nor too soft, so that children do not feel humiliated and do not realize the seriousness of their mistakes.
Nowadays, many parents pay great attention to their children's thoughts, and are worried about criticizing their children in front of others. They feel that their parents have denied themselves, which leads to their inferiority. Therefore, many parents will refrain from educating their children in public, and many parents do not educate their children out of concern for their own face.
Cleverly use the educational factors in the environment, but parents, remember not to compare when educating their children, and never compare other people's children with their own children. Many parents may think that this will have a better educational effect, but in fact, often adopting this method will make children feel inferior to others, which will make them lack self-confidence over time.
As the saying goes, when educating children in Fiona Fang, we should make rules in advance. In many families, it is precisely because of the lack of rules that children are free and unscrupulous. For example, if you cross the road, you should tell your child in advance that you can't run a red light, and you must hold your parents' hands. Preschool children are consciously establishing rules, so making rules in advance is the best education for children.