Perhaps you have encountered such a scene in your passionate class. When you are looking for students' resonance with your eyes, you suddenly freeze in an instant with a student. He looks at you, his eyes confused. Liu XX in Class Two is such a student. When other children have been able to have simple conversations in English, he can't read 26 letters correctly. Every time an international student tutors alone, he will definitely be there. Since then, he has become one of my special "concern" students. I tried my best to improve his English, asking questions, communicating, tutoring ... even criticizing, but it didn't work, which made me very headache.
Once after communicating with teacher Li, I suddenly realized a very serious problem. I know nothing except some basic information about Liu XX at school ... As a teacher, I made the biggest mistake-I only pay attention to students' study, and a child's growth is influenced by many factors. Through many times of communication with parents and class teachers, I learned a lot about Liu XX's life at home and other things at school. And observe at any time, let me know that Liu XX is a simple and sensible child, but his self-care ability is extremely poor, and his parents are taking care of the trivial matters at home. I am a fifth-grade student. I just learned to tie my shoelaces, and I need my mother to help me get dressed in the morning ... I finally found the crux of the problem: parents' excessive care has made children lose their ability to solve problems. Then, I prescribe the right medicine. With the cooperation of Teacher Li, I first communicated with the parents of the children and reached a consensus. I start with Liu XX's life and study, and cultivate his self-care, self-reliance and autonomy. Sure enough, Liu XX has changed, his eyes are bright in class, his desk is always neat after class, and his grades are constantly improving. I am happy with the change of students.
Educate yourself while educating students!
Case (2) requires not only love, but also perseverance.
There is a special child in Class 2, Class 5, where I teach, not because he did anything strange, but because he is sensible and mature, which left a deep impression on me from the first day of class. His name is Yan XX, and he is responsible for urging his classmates to clean the outdoor shared area every day. Usually he doesn't talk much, and the things assigned by the teacher can always be done properly. Math and Chinese are good, but English is at the bottom of the grade group. His parents divorced when he was a child, and his strong mother raised him alone. Two people rented a house to live in He often stays at home alone, sometimes even skips breakfast and goes to school hungry. By observing him at ordinary times, we can see that his poor English performance is mainly due to: when he was learning English in the early days, he didn't have a good learning method and memorized it; I don't pay attention to preview and review after class, and no one helps me; Later, with the deepening of the learning content, I lost my confidence and interest and let myself go.
As we all know, single-parent families will cause psychological harm to children to varying degrees. Therefore, after finding out the reason, I didn't rush to coach him, but built mutual trust through daily communication, ranging from trivial family matters to what the school and society saw and heard. Slowly, he felt the teacher's concern and attention to him, and he also learned more about his mother's hard work. On this basis, starting from this semester, I began to give him planned English tutoring, which achieved good results and is still persisting. ...
Three generations of gentlemen. Primary school students' moral quality education is a lifelong cultivation education. This process has a long way to go. Only by grasping the special physiology and psychology of children, adapting to the needs of social development and educating children scientifically can we make children become useful people in society.