The birth of children in many families is not a private matter between young couples, but between two extended families. General parenting, grandparents will also participate. Especially the role of grandma. Just after giving birth, the young couple may not be able to cope and need others to take the lead. This role is usually taken by grandma. In the process. There will be some contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, because the views of the two generations will definitely be different. In this case, timely communication is necessary. As a mother of the younger generation, how to communicate with her mother-in-law?

First, mutual understanding can lead to better communication, that is, two people express their opinions, understand each other and synthesize their own ideas instead of just saying their own ideas. Because once you fall into a state where you can't hear others. Then communication is also ineffective communication, and the elderly are more likely to be opinionated. As a young man, he is more receptive. First of all, he should understand the old man's thoughts and express his gratitude and respect to him. Then show your point of view with the old man in an attitude of seeking advice and see if it is your own behavior view, which is better for children. Only when mother-in-law and daughter-in-law Qi Xin work together can we build a good bridge of communication.

Second, look at the strengths of the mother-in-law. As the saying goes, if you have an old home, you have a treasure. After all, the mother-in-law is older than the child and has more experience in some things. Young parents should learn from the old and each other. Many of her mother-in-law's thoughts and actions are definitely for the good of her baby. Of course, these emotions should be known to the mother-in-law. After all, her mother-in-law can't always know what Ma Bao thinks. Only by expressing and discussing more can she know where the contradiction lies. Since the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have the same goal, of course, they can solve the contradiction through mutual learning and understanding.

Let the mother-in-law feel that you attach importance to her and feel happy for her to help the small family, so that the relationship between people will be better and a harmonious family atmosphere will make the children grow up healthily.