There are many children with poor learning who grew up in the roar of their parents, and many families also have this roar problem. The following words may be familiar to you. I told you to eat quickly. You are still grinding your teeth after eating. Did you hear me talking to you? How many times have I told you that you are deaf? Look around at you. Do you often educate your children like this? Maybe you will think, I don't want to make a hullabaloo about. I didn't do it entirely for his own good. But have you ever thought about the serious consequences of yelling at children when you were young? Psychological research shows that children often have two kinds of reactions behind their backs, and each reaction is very important, so parents must pay attention to it.

The first is that he will silently endure and admit his mistake. In fact, he just wants this stepmother to end soon, not psychological approval. It will only make the child unconsciously become a flattering character, dare not say anything, and hide it in his heart. It may cause cowardice to the child's future growth. Personality will escape in the face of difficulties and even dare not face excessive behavior.

Secondly, he will fight back angrily, talk back, rebel against his parents, make a hullabaloo about, even throw things and cry. In this case, children will enter the rebellious period prematurely and even develop anti-social personality. They will become impatient, impulsive and even violent in their later growth, and can't tolerate people around them. As children grow older, it becomes more and more difficult to control. Do you think this is over? That's far more than that. Please stay tuned.

A study concluded that children who often suffer from parental yelling and verbal violence will suffer brain damage. When children are attacked by language, the volume of hippocampus in the brain will decrease, and hippocampus is mainly responsible for memory and emotional control. This is why most parents think that after yelling at their children, their grades and habits will not change, and even cause more trouble to their children. You will find that all the questions you can do are off track, and you can't even learn the simpler questions. Educating him with children may make you feel at ease for a while, but this is not the fundamental solution to the problem. Therefore, instead of letting the child suffer irreversible harm caused by language violence, it is better to stand with the child, analyze the problem from the root and help him solve it.

The hardest job in the world is parents. You lose money in business, but if you bring up a child wrongly, it will be painful for the whole family. There are too many cases around us telling us the importance of educating children. The sooner you know the correct way to educate your children, the better. There are many "28 laws" in society, and 80% of parents would rather spend hundreds or even thousands of dollars to enroll their children in various remedial classes than spend dozens of dollars to read books by themselves to make up for the lack of education. Children have problems, and parents really have to reflect on themselves. After watching this video, I sincerely hope that you can be a good communicator with your children and give them a happy childhood.