Civilized manners are the basis of socialist morality and the starting point of cultivating children's noble moral quality and ideal sentiment. Children are born in society, and imitation is a means for children to learn, especially children aged 3-4. They form a preliminary sense of politeness by imitating the good and correct polite words and behaviors in society. As the saying goes: "Less becomes nature, and habit becomes nature." Childhood is not only an important stage of early intellectual development, but also a crucial period for shaping good customs and habits. As Locke said, "it is the only reliable and safe way to pin children's happiness on the cultivation of morality and good conduct." The habits formed when a person is young are very stable and will last a lifetime. Knowledge needs moral guidance, and the cultivation of children's good character has great influence on their life development.
2. Politeness education for children is a necessary condition to realize family harmony and happiness.
In life, it is not difficult to find that parents are always happy to see their children's respect and love for their elders, and the relationship between the old and the young will become particularly close. On the other hand, if we don't pay attention to the education of civilization and etiquette, some bad behaviors, such as children swearing at the elderly, or disobeying public order in public places, will inevitably cause contradictions and conflicts at home, which will not only bring unstable factors to the family, but also bring psychological troubles to the elders. Therefore, educating children to be polite is not only the need of their own growth, but also the need to achieve family harmony.
3. Politeness education for children is also the demand of the whole society.
China is known as "a country of etiquette" and "an ancient civilization", and paying attention to civility and politeness is the traditional virtue of our people. However, in today's society, due to the bad behavior of some people who are impolite and just for their own convenience, foreign countries hold a contemptuous attitude towards our China people's manners, which makes us China people feel ashamed. So how to completely solve this problem? I think we must start with dolls, pay attention to and deepen the etiquette education for children from childhood, let our children enter the 2 1 century with modern etiquette, and tell the world with their own practical actions that China is a well-deserved etiquette country. Therefore, educating children's manners and manners is not only the happiness of our family, but also the great fortune of our country and nation!
Second, ways and means to cultivate children's manners and manners:
(1) Give full play to the educational role of the environment and let a good environment promote the formation of a good civilized and polite environment for children.
Environmental factors have great educational potential for children's growth and development. For children, the activity space, interpersonal relationship, the behavior of children around, the attitude and behavior of teachers will play an extremely important role in their development.
1, change the wall decoration regularly to guide children to salute.
Good civilized and polite education environment can promote people's conscious coordination in thought, emotion and action by virtue of its unique appeal, which has a strong impetus to the development of children's civilized and polite education. We have made great efforts in creating the etiquette education environment. Around the theme of "civilized etiquette", we have created large and small environments in the class and arranged activity rooms. Decorate the wall decoration of the class with such contents as "caring for public property", "respecting the old and loving the young", "I am a polite boy", "I don't pick flowers when they look good" and "crossing the road safely", and show them with pictures about music that children like to listen to. You can also collect some polite photos and post them in children's activity rooms and corridors to attract the attention of parents and children. Through the talking wall, these ever-present environments spontaneously and widely influence children's thoughts, give them positive psychological hints, guide their behaviors, create a good atmosphere for civilized etiquette education, and let children, teachers and parents learn etiquette actively and naturally in a rich etiquette atmosphere.