Parents and children

In daily life, we often see the inconsistency of parents' education. Let's look at the following example.

In daily life, we see the home of an eight-year-old boy.

First act

Mom said, "You should listen to me and do your homework before you play." Dad said, "Play, have fun, and do your homework." Mom said, "Don't fight with your classmates outside." Dad said, "Outside, if someone hits you, you have to fight back.": Mother said: "At school, if you encounter difficulties, ask your teachers and classmates for help and let the teacher know." Dad said, "In school, if you encounter difficulties, try to solve them yourself and don't ask for help" ... What do you think you would do if you were a child?

Act ii

Dad is playing games with his children, and he is addicted to it. He found his mother opening the door. Dad said, "No, your mother is back. Hurry up." Father and son quickly put away the game and pretended to do their homework.

Mom said not to eat junk food, absolutely not. The child and his father are at home, begging his father for money to buy some puffed food. Dad bought it for the child without saying anything. After the mother came back, because the child ate junk food, she began to quarrel loudly with her father in front of the child. "Why are you so used to children?" .

Act iii

The child did badly in the exam. When he came back, his father beat his mother, his father tried to beat him, and his mother pulled hard.

The child did not do well in the exam. When he got home, his mother nagged desperately, and his father threw the paper and wanted to hit the child. In front of his mother, you get used to it, so you get used to it.

Beat a child

What kind of influence will parents' inconsistent educational methods have on children?

First, children become confused and at a loss in life, and don't know who to listen to.

The second is to prevent children from establishing correct life values. His heart will be very contradictory, and he doesn't know what is right and wrong.

Third, let children listen to who is strong, learn to do things in a negative way, and do things in a positive way, superficial and behind.

Fourth, children will become passive Nuo Nuo in life, afraid of wolves before and tigers after, and hesitate to do things. Always think too much.

I hope the above sharing can give parents some vigilance.