First of all, we must understand inferiority. Inferiority means feeling inferior to the average person, feeling lost, unable to change the status quo, and feeling mentally retarded. Therefore, inferiority is self-styled and is also caused by the environment.
People who feel inferior must be determined to do great things.
People with low self-esteem should first pay attention to physical adjustment and exercise. Most people with inferiority complex have kidney deficiency, and the kidney dominates the will. People have a strong will and a high degree of struggle. If they are strong, they will be firm. The material basis of a firm will is to have a good kidney. Good kidney depends on nursed back to health and exercise, and frequent sexual intercourse is not allowed, which is harmful to the kidney.
People with low self-esteem should be patient, build up confidence step by step, start with small things and simple things, record every growth experience and make an analysis. Do a good job to accelerate success, and do a bad job to stop things. Use both hands and brains, dare to try, and try again if you are wrong. Success is to find experience in failure and explore the future through experience. As long as you get closer, I believe you will succeed. Learn to think, dare to act, and think while acting. Learn dialectical thinking and you will become a wise man. At this time, you are no longer an inferior person, but a successful person.
People with low self-esteem should start with an orderly life arrangement, which shows that you are a self-disciplined person. Dressed neatly and upright, with firm and powerful steps, is the image of a successful person. Inferiority can be imitated and done, and you will become a successful person unconsciously.
Qi Yan
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People who feel inferior should strive for self-improvement.
Since ancient times, celestial bodies have operated healthily.
Be modest and firm.
It depends on the use of literary vocabulary,
As an outstanding figure between heaven and earth.
Self-motivated and ambitious,
The strong are invincible, and the heroes are invincible!
A person's inner inferiority must be related to his growth in a family. What happened as a child made him feel insecure and anxious. Then, this kind of inferiority complex, even if he grows up and cares about his appearance, he still has no way to be truly confident. He often uses self-denial, self-doubt and even self-destruction as a psychological defense mechanism.
For example, if you do the following things, your child will feel inferior:
1 For example, when I was a child, my family was not very rich. Not very rich is not the point. The key point is that parents often pass this economic situation on to their children, making them feel insecure about life security.
2. Parents have a bad temper and often quarrel in front of their children. Children will feel that their parents quarrel because of themselves, which leads to inferiority over time.
3. On one hand, the interest or enthusiasm of one aspect that I am particularly interested in is misunderstood or suddenly hit! For example, I worked hard on the exam, but I didn't come back well for some reason. My parents beat my child without any explanation, thinking it was his fault.
4. Some promises are easily given to children by parents, but they are often not really fulfilled. Children grow up thinking that they can get beautiful things, but what they expect in the end will never be found.
Children who come from families with these conditions will only cause them when they grow up.
1, inner insecurity, lack of motivation, not strong enough, but he will let himself through some external things: the surface looks less inferior, and cover up his inferiority with the surface.
So this kind of person is particularly competitive, and he is also a perfectionist. He tries to do everything well and pays special attention to other people's comments. As long as there is a little dissatisfaction, it will be particularly uncomfortable, so I live very tired.
2. Emotionally, I am not particularly insecure. I think too much, I want to love and I am afraid of being hurt. I am particularly entangled and it is difficult to take the first step. After going out, they are particularly afraid of being hurt, often questioning each other, and their nerves are particularly sensitive and fragile.
However, people who feel inferior are not useless, because everything has two sides, so inferiority can also give you some benefits.
Some people are very focused on their work because of their inferiority complex. They can turn this inferiority complex into strength and achieve great success, such as Nietzsche, Mao Mu, Napoleon, Chytra and Rockefeller. ......
Of course, many people didn't handle their inferiority complex well, so they were unhappy all their lives and finally committed suicide.
Therefore, inferiority is actually very important and needs to be dealt with in time.
So how to overcome this inferiority complex?
1. First of all, we should treat and evaluate our own abilities correctly, but we should not exaggerate or belittle our existing abilities and evaluate them objectively.
2. At the same time, we should also look at others' evaluation of ourselves objectively, and distinguish between what we can decide and what others can decide, so we don't have to think so much.
3. Do more things that you are good at and make goals and action plans. Give yourself some rewards in time, whether spiritual or economic, reward yourself in time!
I hope my answer can help you. [Ross]
People who know sunshine,
I am a person with slight social obstacles. Growing up, I never fully expressed myself in front of people.
Especially when I went to college, I was envious of watching those students talk about Kan Kan in front of Kan Kan. However, as soon as I go on stage, I will blush and become incoherent.
When I was a sophomore, almost all the boys in my class had girlfriends. On the rest day, all the brothers in the dormitory went out with their girlfriends, leaving me alone, which was boring. No way, I can't convince myself, only loneliness. Maybe I should live in this state all my life.
I have to go to the library to read and write something. Think about it when you are lonely. If I try to throw my article out, it will be published! At that time, no one in my class could publish anything in the newspaper, and I was undoubtedly the focus of discussion.
However, even under such circumstances, I still feel inferior and don't know how to express it.
This character should be related to experience. I lost my mother when I was a child. At that time, it was often said that children without mothers felt insecure. I didn't think so then. However, when I am bullied and resisted outside, they often say, "What can you do without your mother?" Whenever I come home disheveled, my father will scold me, regardless of my grievances.
At this time, only my grandmother hugged me and called those children ill-bred.
Perhaps it was this experience that made me introverted since I was a child and would not take the initiative to make friends. Therefore, in my life, I spend more time alone. However, deep down, how much I look forward to making friends!
So, although I have published an article, I am still very lonely. Maybe it's my not ugly appearance and some so-called talents. Finally, a girl in our class approached me.
Her singing touched me, but I was still lonely.
I just like the feeling of being pursued.
However, her appearance is really pleasing. With her, I just don't like being alone.
Everyone thinks we are not suitable. I also know that. But, except for her, no one walked into me voluntarily.
Finally, we ended up breaking up. Although I am still lonely, I found my own support, a pen and a word.
So far, my articles have been published in major magazines. Although I am not famous, I am satisfied. I will never pass on this loneliness and inferiority to anyone again.
Everyone has his own city, in which we are his own king!
I used to be a person with low self-esteem. Because of the poor living conditions at home, I grew up wearing my sister's clothes. It's hard to say. When my body began to develop, my mother didn't even have the money to buy me underwear, which led me to walk with my head down when I was in junior high school. A few years after graduation, my classmates once saw me on the road because I didn't have a sense of existence at school and didn't recognize me. Besides, I'm not good-looking and I don't want to go out at ordinary times.
I haven't been to school since I graduated from junior high school because of my poor grades. I learned hairdressing from my sister. The first time I saw a customer, I didn't dare to say hello at all. I want to hide behind the door. My sister told me that you should not be so self-abased, but you should be confident to do a good job in the service industry. So I practice talking to the mirror of the barber shop every day and chat with myself every day. Exercise your courage to talk to strangers. You just start to blush. Slowly, I adjusted my mentality. Give myself encouragement and make me realize that I can do it. Slowly, many customers discovered my change. It may also be that the female university changed eighteen times and slowly learned to dress up. I'm getting more and more confident myself.
I think we should contact more people, slowly overcome our inferiority complex and learn all aspects of communication skills. Make communication easier and easier. Courageously expressed his thoughts. Don't just look at other people's eyes and ideas, just focus on doing things well. When things are successful, your self-confidence is established.
Hello, Uncle Dong, I want to talk to you about your problem, because when it comes to inferiority, I have more say, because I have been living in inferiority, trying to please everyone since I was a child, and I am afraid of being spoken ill, because I am not outstanding, short and a diaosi. It is conceivable that I feel more inferior! Even have psychological problems, dare not see people!
So how did I change?
First of all, we should face up to our own shortcomings and admit them psychologically!
Secondly, you should know what you like best, that is, hobbies, such as sports, such as running and singing, actively studying, participating in hobbies and looking for self-affirmation! Doubled confidence!
In addition, take part in some social activities and special group activities, such as volunteers, such as public welfare, such as some music festivals, Halloween and so on. Go to a crowded place, and someone will definitely affirm you, appreciate you and give you encouragement! You can also increase your confidence!
If you don't want to try any of the above, you like being alone. What should I do? This is also a way that I have long considered very effective. .................................................................................................................................................................
Also, people feel inferior because they care too much about what others think of them, too much hope to get others' affirmation, and magnify their own shortcomings, so I hope you can remember that you are not RMB, and everyone likes it ... So if you want to find something of yourself and magnify it, your inferiority will get farther and farther away from you ... Come on [like it].
Congratulations, you have taken the first step. From now on, don't feel inferior.
Let me give you a suggestion. Stay with the right people, do the right thing, and stay with excellent people, and you will still be excellent.
Inferiority and self-distrust can be mainly summarized into two aspects:
First, mainly in economic ability, we always say that people are heroes, wealth and courage. If we want to change this situation. We must work hard to make ourselves strong. When your economic ability and social experience improve. Your inferiority and lack of self-confidence
It's far away before you know it.
Second, the main performance is that you care too much about other people's eyes. This requires you to read more books. Associate with people with positive energy and correct orientation. Be yourself. Don't care about other people's secular vision. Only when you are strong will all your misfortunes disappear.
I hope my answer will give you a glimmer of light in your predicament.
I have answered such a question, so you can pay attention to it! I hope it helps!