Instead of saying meaningless words, let your nagging occupy the child's attention. Why don't you simply ask and tell your child what you want TA to do?

Wrong way:

"I told you not to throw things around, but why didn't you listen!"

"Procrastination, no sense of time at all!"

The correct way:

"We still have 2 minutes. You need to finish your meal within this time, or we will be late. "

Method 2: Tell the truth.

When educating children, don't turn over old scores, and adhere to the principle of "talking about things, not talking about people". Parents who like to turn over old scores will turn what was originally one thing into "everything is wrong". When children are tired of listening, they will resist and fight.

Wrong way:

"I said a few times! Have you ever heard of it? You threw the book around again this time, and last week, you didn't listen to anything! "

The correct way:

"I see your books haven't been put away. Now go and tidy up, will you? "

Method 3: Direct.

Don't always ask your child if he knows where he is wrong. Children with limited life experience may really not know what they have done wrong. At this time, it is good to make it clear.

Wrong way:

"Do you know where you are wrong? I don't know. Think again! I thought of eating again. "

The correct way:

"It is wrong to watch cartoons without eating. If you finish your meal now, you still have half an hour to watch TV. "

Method 4: Use empathy.

Even if you are scolding the children, please ask the parents to come to them from opposite them. When children feel that someone is sharing the burden with them, it is not so terrible to admit mistakes.

Wrong way:

"I taught you a few times, you can't learn. Forget it, let me do it for you! "

The correct way:

"This question is really difficult. I've missed it many times before. Let's try other methods. Mom is with you. "