Parents should pay attention to the following aspects when using the suggestive reminder method:
1. Communicate with children more.
The use of suggestive reminder method is conditional, that is, the suggestor and the implied person should be familiar with each other and have a close relationship, and each other can quickly perceive some kind of "signal" sent by the other party and get information.
Therefore, in the process of family education, parents should increase the opportunities to communicate with their children, so that both sides can understand each other's mentality, the hidden meaning of each other's actions, gestures, expressions and eyes, and the words of each other.
2. Various hints
Hint reminding method can be divided into many different categories: according to whether the suggestor has a clear purpose, it can be divided into intentional suggestion and unintentional suggestion; According to the means used by the suggester, it can be divided into verbal suggestion and nonverbal suggestion; According to the effect of suggestion, it can be divided into positive suggestion and negative suggestion.
Therefore, in the process of family education, parents should use it comprehensively to obtain the best educational effect. For example, in order to help children correct the bad habit of picky eaters, parents should not only eat with relish, but also often invite their children from relatives and friends to have dinner at home.
In addition, sometimes you can choose the topic of children's eating in movies, TV and literary works, and discuss it with your children while watching it.
3. Clever use of counter-suggestions
The function of suggestive reminder is not only restricted by the status and prestige of the suggester, but also restricted by the age and personality of the suggester.
In the process of family education, parents can make use of their children's competitive psychological characteristics and skillfully use counter-suggestion to stimulate their children from the opposite side of things and inspire them to have the determination to never stop until they reach their goals and take actions according to their own wishes.