A family is not so fair, just treat every child with heart. I don't feel anything. What do you mean fair and unfair? Without such a bowl of water, it can be so flat. If the family conditions are good, it is possible to have a second child. If the family conditions are average, I dare not, because what is not allowed economically? It is enough for a family to manage with care.
I think parents should treat their two children fairly and must remember the principle: treat them equally! Don't let any child feel wronged and hurt.
I am the "boss" in my family, and I have a younger brother. My parents are fair and just to our sisters.
In my opinion, trust, fairness and respect are three necessary skills for a good parent.
Trust: Trust is the interpretation of children's best love.
Fairness: Treat every child fairly.
Respect: Give two children equal respect.
Trust is the interpretation of children's best love, and trust is one of the most basic feelings between people. Everyone wants to be completely trusted. This feeling will make people quite confident, full of strength and have a strong motivation to actively seek solutions to problems, especially for children. As parents, we should send more messages of trust to our children: "I believe you are a capable person …' I think you can do this well', and so on.
Trust children, not question them, especially when right and wrong are unclear. I can't think of a quick-talking child! For example, when a child has a problem, many parents usually ask angrily, "What's going on?" At this point, the child is likely to lie for fear of being scolded or beaten.
We should treat every child fairly. Two children live with their parents, and what parents have to do is to be as fair as possible.