Parents may help their children with their studies in the wrong way. For example, there are excellent teachers and ordinary teachers in the school. What is an excellent teacher? It is a very complicated problem, and an excellent teacher can be understood by students. So are parents. Originally, children can't. Parents speak in the wrong way, and children may not understand. This has happened several times.
Parents must be able to hold back fire first, and children can't learn well. We can let children review the previous lessons first, and then read more questions. In this way, it is possible for children to find their own solutions.
If the child still can't understand the question after reading it many times, we can explain the meaning of the question to the child, which may also let the child know what he misunderstood. Let him think about it, maybe he can succeed.
If this happens, some corporal punishment measures can be taken moderately. Of course, this does not mean beating and cursing. In fact, simply beating and cursing has no good effect, but with the growth of children's age, the effect will get worse and worse, and even in children's adolescence, there will be adverse effects. This can lead to several points. First, punishment should not be influenced by emotions, and it should not be insulting. Second, the punishment should be timely, so that children can clearly know why. Generally speaking, punishment is generally the last resort, especially after children go to primary school, they have communication skills and can understand legitimacy and rationality. Therefore, in Bell 'an weiyang district Chanba No.3 Primary School, the custodian teacher will not only cultivate children's good habits through the dual-teacher course, but also pay great attention to daily guidance.
Children will not do it if they have problems, or they will not do it after being taught many times. We just need to calmly tell him the solution to the problem and guide the child to think through the problem and practice more. If they fail ten times, they will fail twenty or thirty times. .....
This is a test of parents' literacy.
We make a hullabaloo about, we hurt our liver, and the children will be affected and become either timid or irritable.
We need to find out which is more important for body, personality and family harmony, being right or being funny.
First of all, you are not a professional teacher, so you are not as good as a teacher in educational methods. So what you said may not be that the child can't understand, but that you can't speak clearly.
The second point: you are facing children, not adults; Don't apply the method that adults teach children to children. Parents have twenty or thirty years' study experience, while children have only a few years' study experience. Children don't have as much background knowledge as their parents. When your parents say something, consider whether you can understand these words during his years of experience.
The third point: I think children can teach once. Many parents think that children must remember and understand when they are taught. (Most of the parents I have consulted are like this: First, children teach over and over again, remember, no problem. If you have the patience to speak the second time, you will be a little angry if you can't learn it the second time. By the third time, your mood will come up. Some began to beat and scold) but other people's learning rules are not like this. It is through repeated study and practice that one thing can be done. Children are at school, go to school and go home to do their homework. Is the process of learning and practice. If you teach it once and remember it, then education will be too simple.
The fourth point: I think the content of learning is very simple. After decades of experience, parents feel that it is very simple to watch the content of their children's learning. The child didn't behave well and his mood came up again. But he's still a child! ! ! ! What he learns every day now is more difficult for him than yesterday. Speaking of which, I still regard the child as an adult, thinking that he will feel very simple.
The fifth point: the operation law of the brain, when the brain is excited, it is open and its thinking is extremely active. The brain is also spinning very fast. When you are nervous and afraid, you are in a state of inhibition. You can't think. As the saying goes, you are scared silly. Many parents will be emotional when tutoring their children, and children will feel scared and scared. At this time, the brain is bound, and how to teach will only get worse and worse. Many people say that the more you teach, the more stupid you become.
Patience is the most important. There are stages in children's intellectual development. Let the children say it, even if it is wrong, it doesn't matter if they say it. Only when they communicate can they be patient and start with simplicity.