Respecting the elderly is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation.
It is the most practical example for children that adults accompany the elderly.
Respect for the elderly by children is the most powerful inheritance of traditional virtues.
So, on this day or every day,
How do parents educate their children in the traditional way?
What is the Double Ninth Festival?
Double Ninth Festival, the ninth day of the ninth lunar month, is a traditional festival in China.
Nowadays, the Double Ninth Festival has been given a new meaning. 1989 was designated as "Old People's Day", "99" and "99" by China. Nine is the largest number in the number, representing longevity and longevity. Moreover, autumn is also the golden harvest season of the year. The "Double Ninth Festival" is considered to be a good day to wish the elderly a long life, and to advocate respecting the elderly and promoting longevity.
How do children respect the elderly?
Take the initiative to say hello and form good habits.
In daily life, Ma Ma can always pay attention to let children start from the little things in life and strengthen the good habit of respecting the old and loving the young.
For example, let children help the elderly, communicate with the elderly in polite language, and care about the situation of the elderly. You can also cook a meal for the elderly, draw a greeting card, rub your shoulders and so on. I believe that if you persist in this way, your child's good habits will gradually develop.
Have more contact with the elderly.
Many grandparents are used to the place where they have lived all their lives and are unwilling to leave, so many families basically don't live with the elderly.
Old people will miss their little grandchildren. Parents can often take their children to visit the elderly, let them have more contact with the elderly, or let their children prepare some small surprises, so that not only the elderly will feel happy, but also the children will feel fresh.
Correct the wrong behavior in time.
As we all know, children are impulsive and have poor self-control. Their behavior is often dominated by emotions and easy to make mistakes. They often make rude actions to the old people, such as losing their temper, throwing things, ignoring them, etc. Once these problems are discovered, adults must know how to discipline, patiently persuade and seriously criticize, so that children can realize their mistakes.
Understand the hardships of parents
Children should first understand the hardships of their parents and know how to honor their parents. Parents must let their children know that their happy life is hard-won, so that children will be grateful, and they will respect their parents and honor the elderly from the heart.
On the Double Ninth Festival, parents can let their children do some housework within their power, such as washing socks, cleaning rooms, sorting clothes, etc., so that children can participate in daily family activities, which is more conducive to cultivating their sense of responsibility.
What can I do with my grandparents?
Look at the old photos at home.
Although smart phones are very popular now, I believe that every family still has their own old photos, especially grandparents.
Parents can take out old photos of grandparents and listen to all kinds of things when grandparents were young, so that children can know that life is regular and continuous, and grandparents were once children.
Play games with grandparents.
Children can play games with grandparents at home, such as painting and sticking stickers with grandparents, so that children can bring happiness to grandparents in a happy atmosphere of laughter and express their concern and love for grandparents.
Read picture books with grandparents.
There are many benefits of parent-child reading, and there are many kinds of picture books, many of which express love for grandparents, such as "left foot first, then right foot", "never mind, never mind" and "reading for love".
On the Double Ninth Festival, children and grandparents can read picture books together. Through the affection in the picture book story, children can not only feel the care of grandparents, but also enhance the affection between parents.
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Children are surrounded by elders.
On the Double Ninth Festival.
Let children become "crutches" for elders.
Let children know the laws of nature and the cycle of life.
Children's ability to imitate is innate.
Therefore, parents should also set an example.
Let children truly respect the old and love the young, and know how to be grateful to their elders.