Keep calm
When children are in high spirits and excited to make a hullabaloo about, parents should keep calm and calm their children with gentle voices. Wait until the children calm down before educating. Remember, the tone should be steady and firm, and avoid blame. Let the children understand the truth and believe that they will be more sensible next time.
Don't indulge children.
When taking children shopping or playing, children want to buy what they like, but parents can't satisfy every wish. When the child is entangled, try to deliberately ignore it, pretend not to hear it or leave temporarily. This requires the cooperation of the whole family. Wait for the child to calm down, don't indulge him, ignore him as if nothing has happened.
Calm communication
Parents should communicate with their children calmly, hold his hand when reasoning, look into his eyes and let him feel your love. If a child makes mistakes willfully, words such as "shame" and "embarrassment" can be used to guide him to reflect and help him correct his behavior.
Encourage children to do better.
Wayward children usually have high self-esteem and like to listen to praise. Parents can take advantage of this feature. When the child is willful, reminding him of the psychology of "I am partial to meeting" and "I am partial to meeting" may not necessarily make him get what he wants. Encourage him to do better and let him know that the real skill is not willfulness but hard work.
Involve children.
Children like to help adults, which is a way for them to prove their abilities. When a child is willful, let him do what he likes and can do. This can not only divert his attention, but also make him feel satisfied with being trusted and needed.