Analysis:
You are so rude.
You are too vulgar.
Can you tell me what she did?
Aren't you ashamed of yourself? Aren't you ashamed of your behavior? )
I think this sentence is neither light nor heavy. What if she hits you too hard?
I don't think she is necessarily malicious. Sometimes some people do not pay attention to what they say. She thinks she is joking, and even thinks she has a good sense of humor, but on the contrary, it may arouse others' disgust. You can laugh it off. In other words, if she really insults you, don't pay attention to her, because she won't insult others but earn respect by herself. She is not worthy of your attention.
In fact, I think the key to the problem lies in the word "bird hair". If she said feather, you might think she was just joking with you. Remember, just be happy.