Physically and psychologically, junior high school students are still minors. In the usual education, it will be very effective to give them more incentives, such as praise, reward, commitment and praise.

Many parents and friends are eager to see their children succeed in life. As soon as they find children and bad signs, they will be tough to stop them. As for children, they don't listen to this, which runs counter to the effect. We might as well throw away the cold mask and find that the child has not made much progress, so we can pick up the weapon of praise and let him realize his important position in your mind.

2. Proximity method

If you have time to chat and exchange with your children, you don't have to talk about formal topics. Talking about life, or talking about your own experiences in school and work, can create a sense of closeness in students' psychology, thus achieving the purpose of educating students.

Nowadays, many parents work outside the home, so it is difficult to see their children once a day, even once a week or once a month. This is not right, so parents' curriculum training should be strengthened, because children at the age of 14 or 15 need the care of their parents, which is an essential influence for them.

Parents in the above situation should call more often when they are not at home, at least once every two days, ask him about his study, his life and his difficulties, and express your thoughts on him. Imagine that you have never communicated, communicated or been close to your children. He thinks you don't care about him at all. How can he be no stranger to you?

3. Cultivate common hobbies with children.

Students spend most of their time in the classroom. Teachers should create a democratic, tolerant, kind and friendly classroom atmosphere, which is conducive to improving students' rebellious psychology and behavior. Usually, it is necessary to cultivate children's specialties or hobbies. When playing ball, the teacher can say to him, "You are just as good." Invisibly let students think that you are friends with them and have a common language psychologically, so as to achieve the purpose of education.

Of course, so do parents. For example, playing chess with children, talking about sports and singing pop songs. Of course, listen to music in moderation. For example, you can listen to music for an hour every week and tell him not to get addicted. Too much is useless.

4. Optimization of family education

Under the guidance of teachers, if parents can realize the empathy between themselves and their children and adjust their educational behavior reasonably, it will play a good role in improving the quality and effect of family education and correcting children's bad psychology, including rebellious psychology.