Parents with low educational level do have some difficulties in tutoring their children. However, parents can play the role of supervision and guidance, attach importance to the education and management of children's skills, and play the role of cheerleaders, close communicators and communicators in children's learning process. Careful invigilators will also stimulate children's learning!
Try to do the following:
1 Create a good environment and cultivate good study habits.
It is very important for children to have a quiet learning environment! Some parents may not realize how important a quiet environment is to their children's study. They always like to invite colleagues to play poker and mahjong at home after work. Some parents usually don't turn on the TV after supper. I have been watching the news. I don't know that children can't see books in this environment.
Parents should consciously create a good learning environment for their children. If the house at home is tight, parents can arrange a "study corner" in a relatively remote place indoors, set up a desk and install lights to make their children feel comfortable there. study
Conditional families can buy related school supplies and reference books for their children. Usually, parents can also order some newspapers, magazines and reference books, which are suitable for children to read, broaden their horizons and enrich their knowledge.
Parents with low educational level can be counted as children (senior advice)
Try to achieve "three more" and "three less"
Many business orders. For example, to remind children to do their homework, you can say "on time, are you working?" Directly to the ground: "Stop watching TV and go to work!" In this way, the child will think that you respect him and are willing to listen to you.
More guidance, less reprimand. In fact, the more parents respect their children, the more children will respect you, and people will pay more attention to their words and deeds and win the respect of others. Of course, the specific situation must be treated specifically, because parents don't have to be euphemistic about their children's bad products and bad habits, but they should talk to him equally seriously, point out their harm, ask for correction, and record some punishment measures.
It's not just a friend Smith's "privacy". Many children are particularly displaced with their parents, reading books and peeking at diaries. In fact, parents should make friends with their children and spend time chatting with them, asking their children questions and interpersonal relationships. In this way, children will feel that their parents respect and trust themselves, they will trust them more and more, and they will regard their parents as tips rather than confidential objects.
3 always know your child's learning situation.
Learn to check the completion of children's homework After the children finish, parents should urge them to do their homework, check their homework and review their homework. Check your child's exercise book regularly to see if the teacher corrects it too much and what his score is. If there are too many mistakes and poor grades, please help your child find out the reasons and correct them in time. Parents with low educational level can help their children in this way (senior class teacher is recommended)
Strive for knowledge and set an example.
Parents are the first teachers of the children. Parents' interests will have a great influence on their children. Parents can cultivate their children's love for learning through their own words and deeds. Parents need to continue their studies and make progress with their children. Parents can gradually improve their cultural level through reading and self-study, and even worship their children as teachers, which can greatly stimulate their interest in learning.
When you encounter questions you don't understand, you can check the information with your child, or consult your neighbors, relatives and friends to set an example for your child to learn and ask questions. If the child's knowledge level exceeds that of parents, parents may regard the child as a "little teacher" and often ask the child some questions. This child not only consolidates what he has learned, but also longs to learn better, because he has students like his father or mother!
5 usually actively cooperate with school teachers.
Some parents don't contact their teachers and go to school before the parent-teacher conference, which is very bad. Parents should not be shopkeepers, thinking that everything will be fine after sending their children to school. In fact, they need to strengthen contact with school teachers and understand their children's performance in school. Now, children have two aspects. They behave well at home. At school, it's the other side. If there is little contact between parents and teachers, it is difficult to know the situation and performance of children at school in time, and teachers don't know the situation of children at home, so it is difficult to cooperate. Parents are advised to take a proactive attitude and keep in touch with teachers.
Fill the limited educational vacancy with deep love.
Learn to be a "ruthless" parent, find ways to make friends with your child and care about his life and study; Actively guide and help children to correct his weaknesses or shortcomings; Don't deliberately blame children in public. Otherwise, it will disgust the child and increase his pressure.
Try to make him feel the warmth of home and the natural feelings of his loved ones. Talk more, don't talk about learning or what you want from him, try to talk about what he is interested in, even if you don't understand, it doesn't matter. Sometimes you just need to be an audience. Let him get used to telling you that the relationship will gradually get closer and it may be easier to talk about other things. You can enjoy a relaxed atmosphere at dinner and eat at the same time.
Good habits will benefit a lifetime, especially for growing children. Cultivate children's concept of time, and ask children to complete their learning tasks within the specified time without delay or delay; Cultivate children to concentrate on everything. When doing homework, you should be directed by a single director, instead of watching TV or eating snacks while writing, which means that one mind can't do two things; Help children make a good study plan and urge them to implement it.