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Gaoyou fully enclosed school: What should parents do when children of different ages run away from home?
Children who run away from home are the biggest headache for parents. Most children who run away from home are stubborn, and they prefer silence. They run away when they encounter something they don't like, and take running away as a routine. Parents are often helpless and even a little scared. What should parents do for such children who like to run away from home? Parents should put themselves in the child's shoes and consider the problem from the child's point of view, and cannot indulge the child. They should pay attention to their psychological development at an early age.

1, consider calmly:

Parents should be calm and prepared when children run away from home. After all, children's temper and personality are known and should be aware of it. When children run away from home, parents should look at their age characteristics. When, how, where and when to leave home, parents have different expectations.

2 2. 10/under 0 years old:

/kloc-children under 0/0 run away from home, depending on the situation. If you are being scolded by your parents for corporal punishment, you are dissatisfied, suddenly angry and run away from home. In this case, parents can rest assured that the child will not go far. As soon as he goes out, he will see if you follow him. If you follow him, he will get worse in the future. You can see him. He will be back soon.

3. Don't scold:

/kloc-children under 0/0 will not choose to run away from home at night, because they are young and generally afraid of the dark and will not run away alone. Don't scold the children when you come back, tell their parents that they are worried that it is not as good as home outside. It would be wrong not to do so in the future.

4, put aside for a period of re-education:

Children from 10 to 13 have their own ideas and opinions. Children of this age will not come back immediately after leaving home. Usually choose to live in the nearest classmate's house. Parents should not rush to let him come back. They are all very angry, and coming back will only intensify contradictions. Stay for two or three days, and the children will forget themselves. After taking the initiative to come back, parents will admit their mistakes to their children first, and the children will listen.

5./kloc-Children over 0/5 years old:

The biggest worry is that more than 15 children run away from home. The age is in the most rebellious stage, and children have a wide range of people. If the child runs away from home, parents should contact his classmates and friends in time. If classmates and friends know, parents should not rush to persuade them. The effect will be better. Children who are not sensible will take the initiative to go home under the persuasion of their friends.

Step 6 ask for help:

/kloc-Children over 0/5 years old run away from home and their parents can't be contacted. They can't get in touch with classmates, friends and relatives or don't know the situation. Parents should call the police in time, and children may mix with all kinds of people in society, or go out to run away from home together, or meet netizens alone.

7. Eliminate out-of-control factors:

Runaway children have their own ideas. Parents must find out the reasons why their children run away from home, which are poor study, weariness of learning and truancy. Bullying, strict parental discipline and divorce are common reasons for children to run away from home. Parents must eliminate their children's dissatisfaction and care for them sincerely, so that they will not run away from home.

8. Understand the psychology of children leaving:

Children who run away from home generally have poor ability to resist setbacks and can't bear any grievances. Therefore, children who show signs of running away from home should cultivate their ability to resist setbacks from an early age.

Parents of children who like to run away from home should put themselves in their shoes and consider the problem from the child's point of view; Children should not be indulged, but should pay attention to their psychological development when they are very young.

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