There are also some people in society who regard teenagers' * * behavior as a manifestation of backward thinking and moral corruption, which is also a wrong view.
From the perspective of sexual physiology, * * * is a person's sexual excitement and impulse after puberty. However, due to environmental reasons, he could not solve this sexual need. In this contradictory situation, taking * * * as an outlet is not a serious problem, but it is necessary to do a good job in health education and give correct guidance to teenagers. We should tell them the reasons for * * *, analyze the consequences of * * *, and let teenagers know what * * * is, so as to reduce the heavy ideological burden of those who have * * * behavior.
However, we can't promote the theory of harmlessness unconditionally and encourage teenagers to seek sexual stimulation through * * *. The standard sexual behavior is the sexual union between husband and wife.
* * * belongs to sexual behavior, but after all, it is an venting behavior under the contradiction between sexual requirements and temporarily unable to meet such requirements. Before, during and after * * * *, * * people often fall into the psychological state of ideological contradiction and mental strength collapse.
For many weak-willed people, he may pursue * * * in the form of * * * in order to obtain continuous and endless sexual impulses. * * *, then you may regret shame and anxiety-if you keep these bad emotions for a long time, over time, people will become listless, lose appetite, sleep badly and lose concentration when studying.
Often * * *, in order to get * *, * *, people often have imaginary sexual objects in their minds. When he is sexually excited, he may call some names of the opposite sex. This unhealthy desire will make people's taste low, vulgar and not noble. For teenagers, there is no clear line between * * * and excessive * * *.
Generally speaking, teenagers have poor self-discipline ability. Once they get * * * from * *, it's easy for them to get addicted to it. If excessive * * *, it will have some adverse effects not only on physiology but also on psychology.
People's physiology and psychology are closely related, * * * causes mental stress, which will lead to some diseases. Therefore, it is not correct to simply and unconditionally publicize the harmlessness of * * *, and it is also wrong to regard the behavior of * * * as a plague virus.
It is impossible to absolutely prohibit masturbation, and it is also incorrect to let it happen frequently. So, how to treat * * * correctly? In our opinion, the correct way should be: (1) to educate teenagers about sex, so that they can master the knowledge about sexual hygiene, eliminate the mystery of sex, cultivate the ability to restrain their impulses, overcome their abilities with reason, and correctly handle the sexual impulses in the development of teenagers. (2) Strengthen ideological education. Young people in New China should not only have basic physiological requirements, but also win honors, be respected and have prestige, pursue advanced requirements of truth, focus on work and study, and have no idle fantasies. * * * will not happen or rarely happen.
(3) Through various beneficial activities, cultivate teenagers' strong and tenacious will, try their best to restrain their sexual impulses, and consider the possible adverse consequences, and use activities that are more conducive to physical and mental health to stop, transfer and dilute the sexual impulses that have already occurred. Teenagers actively participate in various beneficial social activities, expand contact and normal communication with the opposite sex, which is conducive to maintaining the balance of sexual psychology and inhibiting * * * behavior.
(4) Educating teenagers to develop good health care habits, sleeping on time, getting up on time, taking a bath regularly, paying special attention to the cleanliness of reproductive organs and strengthening physical exercise may prevent the occurrence of * * *. .
2. Adolescent sex education
It can be said that sex education for teenagers in China is really a long way to go. Nowadays, the lack of humanistic knowledge in China is a common social phenomenon.
This has a lot to do with some old and decadent social traditions in China, which are hard to change for a while, so that some people simply talk about "sex". In the news of newspapers and magazines, we can often see some people playing jokes because of their lack of sexual knowledge. The funniest thing is that I saw a news that a newly married couple went to the hospital for an abortion because of an unexpected pregnancy. The doctor asked them if they had not taken safety measures. Who would have thought that my husband said they took it, but it didn't work.
The doctor asked him strangely, but he made a funny remark. He said they used condoms to cook soup for contraception. Although this is only a rare thing, we can't laugh it off.
In the final analysis, the biggest problem of universal sex education in China is the change of ideas. In fact, sex education for children should start with parents, but I believe that with the deepening of China's reform and opening up, sex education will surely spread to thousands of households in the near future, so that everyone in China can have better sex knowledge.
3. Sexual knowledge of adolescent boys
Physical and psychological changes of boys in adolescence
Adolescence refers to the stage when an individual's sexual function changes from immaturity to maturity. In biology, it refers to the transition period from immaturity to maturity, that is, the transition period from children to adults for men. During this period, my personality is mature and I can have children. It can be seen that adolescence is mainly a stage of physiological maturity, which overlaps with the stages of life divided from psychological or social aspects. People usually call men of this age boys. In adolescence, there are not only obvious physiological changes, but also great psychological changes.
Confused about the development of reproductive organs
Male reproductive organs are divided into internal and external parts. The internal genitalia includes testis, vas deferens and accessory glands; The external genitals include scrotum and * * *. The early development of these organs is very slow. After puberty, under the action of follicle stimulating hormone, luteinizing hormone and androgen, they begin to develop rapidly, much faster than other systems. With the rapid development of reproductive organs, many problems plague young boys.
Questions about foreskin
The foreskin is located at the front end of the * * *, and it is covered by a double * * * skin. Turn the foreskin upside down, and you can see that the annular contraction behind * * * is called the coronal sulcus. There are many sebaceous glands in the skin near the coronary sulcus, which secrete yellow-white mud, which is called "skin scale". Men, especially before the age of 7, have a long foreskin, covering the whole head and urethral orifice. By the age of three, the foreskin and * * * will separate themselves, so it is easier to pull the foreskin behind * * *. Later, with the development of youth, the volume and length of * * * will increase, and the foreskin will shrink back, exposing the head and urethral orifice of * * * outside the foreskin.
Questions about nocturnal emission
Nocturnal emission is usually called "wet dream" or "dream essence", and most boys occur in their sleep. In the past, there were many wrong interpretations of wet dream, some of them said that this phenomenon was caused by pathological factors or moral defects, and repeatedly stressed that nocturnal emission was harmful; Some attribute wet dream to tight clothes and trousers, or warm bedding, or improper sleeping position; There are also some parents who believe that wet dream is caused by impure thoughts of boys; Some people think that it is a high tension reaction caused by poor sexual venting. All these failed to find the root cause of wet dream-the physiological cause of the boy's maturity.
Questions about * * *
* * * behavior refers to all self-fulfilling activities without the participation of the opposite sex. There are generally three forms: sexual fantasy, sexual dream and * * *. This is the most common problem of confused teenagers. If * * * appears occasionally, it is still normal and natural. If hallucinations are often used instead of reality, it may lead to illness, which should be paid attention to and adjusted. We can't talk about the harm of * *, and we don't advocate this kind of behavior.
about the puppy love
Love is a heavy and sacred topic. And puppy love, this sour and sweet but green fruit, can it be called love? The word "puppy love" always seems a bit unnatural to mention. If we want to say "first love", it will always be as fresh and beautiful as weeds soaked by dew in the morning, while "puppy love" is full of teachers and parents' faint anxiety and dissatisfaction. What do we think of the so-called "puppy love"? For or against? This is a problem that deserves the attention of teenagers, parents, schools and even the whole society.