Bian Xiao's own parents are like this, not only in front of Bian Xiao, but also in front of others, saying that Bian Xiao is poor and can't do anything. Bian Xiao has a sensitive personality since he was a child, and he is often hit by his parents' words. When she grew up, she once thought she really knew nothing.
First of all, Li Chengru said his son was incompetent and turned him down to his face.
In a variety show, the host contacted Li Chengru, hoping that he would say something encouraging to his son. As a result, Li Chengru was very disdainful, saying that his son had nothing to boast about, except that he looked like a dog, which was given by his parents, and it was nothing at all. The scene is very embarrassing, although Li Dahai has nothing to boast about. However, he is completely to make himself happy, regardless of his son's self-esteem.
This education is undoubtedly a failure. I believe such a father, his son will not kiss him. Li Dahai said he needed someone's approval, and Li Chengru was obviously not this person. At any time, he thinks that suppressing children can make them modest and enterprising, but he doesn't know that excessive suppression will make children feel more and more inferior.
Second, I hope to put an end to Chinese-style parent education.
It is said that parents are the best teachers for their children, and a parent who suppresses their children every day will leave an indelible shadow in their hearts. Li Chengru felt that his education was successful, but Li Dahai became increasingly alienated from him. Later, he wanted to have a good relationship with the children and was going to give them a car. Li Dahai declined many times, and finally only chose the average price. As the son of Li Chengru, he dare not be spoiled. I want to do something to prove myself, but I can't get a good word from my father, even a look.
I don't think anyone will like this kind of education. When we are young, we are afraid of everything we do. At this time, we need the guidance and encouragement of our parents. If parents blindly suppress their children, they will give them inertia and think that their children are very bad, and they dare not try easily no matter what they do. It is difficult to integrate into the community when you grow up, and even become a social phobia.