After a disaster, it brings us more and deeper reflections. For young children, any small accident in the eyes of adults may cause irreparable harm. Therefore, as parents, we must put the common sense of disaster prevention and accident prevention into every little detail of life. Only when the water keeps flowing and the alarm keeps ringing can the safety of children be guaranteed to a greater extent.
A two-year-old girl was left unattended and sat in a chicken soup pot on the ground, causing burns; When the child is sick, he does not take medicine according to the doctor's advice, which leads to poisoning; Letting children swim alone in the community swimming pool leads to drowning ... Home is the most relaxing place in a person's life, but it is also the most prone to problems. 60% accidents happen at home or around home. For children, home is an accident-prone place.
Accidental injury is an emergency in children's life. Children can't solve all kinds of injuries they face in their growth independently, and they need the necessary help and guidance from their parents. Many injuries can be avoided if parents, as the first teachers, teach their children a good sense of protection as soon as possible and teach them the skills to prevent accidental injuries.
Parents' negligence, lack of safety education, imperfect first aid system, unreasonable home layout or items placement may all lead to children's injury or death. In addition, a special study in Japan found that in the event of an accident, housewives and children who have the ability to live independently will have a higher survival rate-because they know better how to protect themselves and how to obtain resources for survival. Many adult men lose their chances of survival because they usually don't pay attention to the details of life. Therefore, it is very important to learn all kinds of disaster prevention and accident prevention knowledge in life. As parents, they must not take care of all the details of their children's lives, but should improve their independent living ability, thus improving their resilience.
Eight tips for teaching children to guard against danger
First of all, pay attention to getting a feeling.
In a crisis, you should trust your intuition. Parents should not only warn their children to get uneasy feelings from people or things they contact, but also pay attention to listening and encourage them to say things that they feel uneasy about.
Second, learn to recognize temptation.
Usually parents should tell their children to be wary of strangers asking for directions or asking for help to find lost pets-these are two common strategies used by criminals to kidnap children. For example, some criminals pretend to know you and call out your name (in fact, he may have seen the name embroidered on children's clothes or heard someone call you that when he was following you); Some criminals call themselves firemen and make up an emergency such as your house is on fire. Parents should tell their children that no one, even the police and firefighters, can take their children away without the permission of their guardians.
Third, don't just focus on strangers.
Parents often tell their children, "Don't talk to strangers."
What is a stranger? Children don't really understand that if they are asked to draw a stranger's face, they usually draw a terrible face. In fact, those who want to invade children usually put on an affable face. According to the survey, 90% of the suspects who commit sexual crimes against children are people that children know. Parents should especially remind girls not to go out alone or go anywhere with the opposite sex.
Fourth, learn to make phone calls loudly.
A weak child can't defeat an intruder, so there is no need to teach a child how to defeat an intruder with his fist, but a child can do many things that attract the attention of people around him. For example, shouting: "Help! He is not my father! " Children riding bicycles can use bicycles as a cover, making it difficult for criminals to kidnap you and call for help at the same time. This will arouse the attention and vigilance of onlookers and the possibility of seeking assistance.
5. Have the courage to say "No"
Parents want to cultivate educated children, but they should also let them know when they can break the rules. For example, if someone threatens a child to do something rude or dangerous, be brave enough to say "no"!
There are many people who can help you.
Calling the police when you are in trouble is the most basic common sense, but this alone is not enough. If the police were not here, the child wouldn't ask anyone for help. Children should also know that workers in parks, shopping malls, cinemas and other places can ask for help, and one more chance will give them more hope for survival.
Seven. Beware of electronic field
Whether there is a computer at home or not, it is also very important for parents to tell their children to pay attention to safety matters in the electronic field. Children can use the Internet in schools, libraries and classmates' homes. Therefore, children should be told to keep some family and personal secrets and not to meet anyone they meet online easily.
Eight, practice in the game to enhance self-protection ability.
It is not enough to tell children some ways to take care of themselves and save themselves. Maybe I remembered it then, but I forgot it later. The only way for children to master it is through role games and drills, and gradually master the essentials after many drills. In family games, parents can design a variety of possible scenarios, ask questions to their children and test their reaction ability. At the same time, we should practice how to maintain communication between parents and children.