As parents, we all hope that our children can grow up healthily and learn to respect and understand. But sometimes, children may make some unreasonable demands, which bothers us. So, how to handle it skillfully without hurting the child's self-esteem and let the child understand the truth?

Attitude is everything.

When refusing children, keep calm and polite, and avoid using violent language. A grumpy attitude will only make children feel scared and even rebellious.

Transposition consideration

Imagine how you would feel if you were a child and heard your parents make unreasonable demands. Try to use children's way of thinking to understand and guide them and let them understand their parents' pains.

Humor and wit

When children refuse us, we might as well try to respond to them in a child's way, such as imitating their coquetry tone and making them realize that their behavior is not desirable.

Wisdom guidance

In the process of educating children, we should be good at observing and discovering their psychological changes, and guide them to grow up healthily with wisdom and love. In this way, we can not only cultivate sensible and respectful children, but also make the family more harmonious and beautiful.