By chance, I got a book "How Celebrities Educate Children" and read a few pages curiously. Really benefited a lot and felt a lot. From wise mother Yang Lan to laissez-faire education Pan Changjiang, from domineering and loving Chen to soft-hearted, from soft-hearted Liang to cruel father Li Ka-shing, their parenting experiences are different, but they are all worthy of your appreciation and understanding as a mother.
Yang Lan's teaching: You may not succeed, but you must not grow up. Everyone knows that Yang Lan is a famous program host, and she is very busy and tired at work every day. However, every day when she comes home, she can ask herself to listen carefully to the children and tell her every little thing that happened at school. This is the respect that a wise mother should give her children. In fact, all mothers are the same. No one is born a clever mother. The so-called wise mother also grows through continuous learning. As long as you keep learning, make your vision wider and deeper, and make your heart thinner, you will become a wise mother, and your children will go to the road you expect more smoothly.
Liang: Be gentle, be gentle, and the gentle breeze and drizzle will nourish the child's heart. Let nature take its course and do what it can, which is Liang's expectation for children's growth. This dialectical view not only comes from his profound understanding of things, but also clearly reflects a famous writer's outlook on life and talent. In the eyes of ordinary people, it is natural for parents to be determined to succeed; It is common for the general public to talk about heroes' high or low credit. Inferred from this, some people will think that Liang is a celebrity, and his expectations for children are definitely higher, which will be "shine on you is better than blue"; He will definitely pay more attention to high scores and prestigious schools. Liang doesn't think so. He once said to his children: "The opportunity to receive higher education is very important for a person's life, but it is not absolute. Neither Churchill nor Balzac were good students in middle school. The key is to choose a good life coordinate according to personal conditions, set a position and give full play to your strengths. "
Liang's method of educating children not only reminds us of Mr. Lu Xun's sentence, "Parents should have healthy people, try their best to educate their children and completely liberate them." But how many parents in China can really do it?
In this book, there are many famous prodigy classics. Whether you are a mother or not, it is worth reading carefully.
Chapter 2: How to educate children about their feelings after reading? I am a primary school teacher, and I really want to educate my students. I work hard and have made a lot of efforts in educating students, but I always feel that the development of students is far from my own goals, and I am also confused about my own methods of educating students. Many ideas and practices in the book How Teachers Teach Their Children Well have inspired me and made me understand a lot.
In fact, there are no ready-made immutable rules for educating students. Because every child is an independent individual, we should selectively learn from others' good practices and take effective measures according to students' personalities in order to achieve better results.
Be calm when educating children. Every child is an independent individual and has his own thoughts. If you force your thoughts on your child regardless of his feelings, you will be the one who gets hurt in the end. Therefore, when educating children, teachers should first treat children with a peaceful attitude. Give yourself a mentality of all-round development of students and save a new development path for students' future development. Students will also have a happy life! Let children have a happy childhood.
When you look back on your childhood, you often have a lot of fun. Kicking shuttlecock, throwing sandbags, jumping rubber bands, grabbing stones, playing hide-and-seek ... the list is long, and the fun at that time is still fresh in my memory. But look at our students now, how pitiful. Apart from the necessary homework, there is little content to play every day, let alone many tricks. When we criticize students, we should also think about it. In fact, students are already very poor, and they have lost a lot of fun in their childhood. The pain of childhood is almost the pain of life. Therefore, we teachers should strive to create a happy childhood for students.
In fact, when educating students, many problems and puzzles will be solved as long as they are considered from the perspective of students. As a teacher, I should strive to create a relaxed environment for students' growth, but I should also look at students' advantages and disadvantages objectively, guide them to grow scientifically, show more concern for students, show love and patience, and lay a foundation for students' growth.
Chapter 3: How to educate children to learn to study after reading and learn to love. Parents should not only learn to improve their self-cultivation, but also study hard. More importantly, they should learn how to give their children the right love. Only when love is right can they give their children a good growth environment. ...
A book that can change your family. The first time I read this book hungrily, I felt that my spiritual mentor finally appeared after so many years. I made almost all the mistakes made by many parents mentioned in the book, and the result of teacher Wang's handling the same problem made me realize. So when I read it the second time, I took notes carefully, sorted out the cases and solutions in the book, and then followed suit. The effect is really good, the communication with children is also very pleasant, and the children's learning motivation has become higher.
Learn to communicate
I used to envy my parents who got along with their children. Maybe this is my personal reason. I have always had the dignity of my elders, so I have always been strict with my children. I tried to treat my son in the role of strict father, which made the topic between us less and less. When the children saw me, they were scared. If anything happens, they will tell his mother directly. Some time ago, I learned about Wang Jinzhan's educational methods through a friend's introduction. I have to admit, I really did a poor job in educating children. I am now adjusting my mentality according to what Mr. Wang told our parents, praising my children as much as possible and not communicating with them so seriously. Now our father-son relationship is slowly improving. At dinner last night, my son even told me interesting things about school. Seriously, I'm touched. While looking for their own shortcomings, they are also trying to improve slowly. As Mr. Wang said, since we brought the child into this world, we have the responsibility and obligation to educate him well and give him a good growth environment. I hope that one day we can also be the envy of everyone.
From this book, I already know where children should start to learn and educate.
Miss Wang is really a good teacher who understands children's hearts. I wonder if my children will be lucky enough to meet such a good teacher in the future. At least now, her kindergarten teacher is not so good, and she is fierce to children. Children always tell me that they don't want to go to kindergarten, which makes them feel boring. What does that mean? It can be seen how free and restrained children are.
After reading this book, I think where to start learning and educating children in the future. There is no such thing as good or bad children. Artificial division will only stifle potential children, understand children, appreciate children, and communicate with children from their perspective and position, thus bridging the generation gap. You can turn "poor" students into excellent students in a short time.