1, don't say it directly. Never, never. If you usually have a good relationship with your daughter and communicate more, you can make some suggestions as a friend and in a reference tone. You don't have to emphasize the opposition first, but look at your daughter's own feelings first. To what extent are you emotionally connected. Whether it will affect learning, tentatively see if there are signs of unhealthy development. But never preach. Adolescent rebellion will not accept this kind of preaching, but will only feel that parents don't understand their feelings, and they can communicate through letters, because letters are more likely to resonate and avoid direct conversation. If a word is not good, conflicts will arise.

2. Daughter's puppy love should be analyzed in detail to find the best solution.

Children begin to enter adolescence when they reach junior high school. The most prominent feature of adolescence is sexual maturity. Their bodies and minds have undergone great changes. They have a strong sense of independence, frustration, dependence and desire to be cared for. Then their sexual consciousness begins to sprout, and they want to get in touch with the opposite sex or have a hazy attachment to the opposite sex. So it is particularly easy to fall in love at this time. It's really important to teach them correct sexual and biological knowledge, and it's not a dirty thing.

4, can't forcibly break them up, otherwise it may be counterproductive and stimulate their rebellious psychology. When I was a student, which girl didn't secretly love a little boy, and which boy didn't have a campus goddess in his heart? You can talk to your daughter, analyze and tell her from her point of view, what you can't do now and what you shouldn't do, and you can keep the relationship of super friends, but the premise is that you can't go beyond the rules and it won't affect the performance and development of both sides.