The quality of preschool education has an important influence on children's life. Early childhood education is not only to educate children's cognition to achieve intellectual development, but also to educate children in all aspects, including ideological quality and physical quality. I didn't learn much during this period, but through life and games, I stimulated children's strong thirst for knowledge, cultivated a strong interest in learning, and explored education in organization, society, operation and creativity.

A child who can't play is definitely not an excellent child; Parents who only know how to force their children to cultivate "characteristics" are definitely not excellent parents. For children, childhood is a "dance academy", while parents need patience and meticulous care. Of course, this does not mean encouraging parents to curb the cultivation of children's interests. This requires parents and children to work together to find out the points of interest and actively explore them, making them a "bright spot" that affects life.

This period is also the best time to cultivate children's self-confidence. Generally speaking, self-confidence should be established at 10- 18 months after the child is born. Parents can acknowledge their children's behavior by saying "You are great …", "You are great …" or giving a thumbs up.

Primary school stage:

Mainly to cultivate children's study habits.

As the saying goes, "It is never too old to learn", so the importance of developing study habits is self-evident. For ordinary children, 1-3 grade is the best time to develop good study habits. For other children, such as children who have not grown up with their parents and have not developed good habits, it takes a relatively long time to develop their study habits, usually from grade 65438 to grade 0-5.

At this time, parents mainly cooperate with school education to create a good family environment. If children learn procrastination and have poor self-control, parents need to lie on the table with their children and stare at their studies. But in the meantime, parents should set an example by not answering the phone, wandering around, cooking, watching TV and chatting. At ordinary times, parents should also be strict with themselves, do things neatly, do not drag their feet, and do what they say. At the same time, parents should continue to encourage their children to maintain their existing specialties, which is not only conducive to their growth, but also conducive to junior high school and college entrance examination.

Junior high school stage:

The main thing is to let children lay a good foundation.

Junior high school is an important turning point in life. During this period, children move from childhood to adolescence; It is a period that requires students to develop autonomy, inquiry and cooperation in learning and develop learning orientation and cognitive style in solving problems; It is also a period of shaping students' personality, which is of great significance to a person's life. Therefore, it is necessary and necessary to guide students to "spend their junior high school life better".

The teaching of junior high school knowledge has got rid of the "nanny-style" indoctrination in primary education. The knowledge structure at this time is a set of rings. If this section is "liabilities", the following chapters will be difficult to understand, and this "balance sheet" will be higher and higher. If there are many blind spots in knowledge, from quantitative change to qualitative change, and children can't sit still in class, there will be problems such as skipping classes and not doing homework. If you meet parents who don't understand, the situation will be more serious. There will be a series of situations, such as "fighting" at home every day, and children will run away from home in anger and get higher grades. If children have a good foundation and can sit still in class, these problems will not bother you.

High school stage:

Mainly to cultivate children's sense of responsibility.

High school is another crossroads in life, especially in the sprint stage of senior three, which is simply the accumulation of knowledge at ordinary times. The most important thing at this stage is the college entrance examination. Days are like calendars on the wall. A page is torn off and a day is gone. This parent's heart is always tense. The child is already very nervous at school and comes home. If parents talk endlessly or provoke their children to be motivated, the home will undoubtedly become a "battlefield".

This means that parents should treat their children as adults, discuss things with them calmly, and make them feel that they have grown up and must bear certain responsibilities. This is not necessarily a good way to stimulate children's learning motivation.

In short, parents should grow up with their children, and in the process of growing up, there are both constraints and tolerance, making Excellence a habit, and then watching their children enter institutions of higher learning.