Mom said that he is not the only one who likes his cousin. There are two boys in the village who are introverted and don't like to talk. They haven't found anyone yet. According to my mother, many children are like this now, saying that she and my second aunt went to see Xiao Lei, the son of ZSZSZSZ's family, and Xiao Yan and his uncle went out to work. Xiao Lei was at home alone last year. She and my second aunt bought some food to send to Xiao Lei. Xiao Lei opened the door without saying a word and took the initiative to talk to him, but he didn't respond. They had to pour themselves a glass of water, rest for a while and leave. I still remember that when I went back in 20 13, Xiao Lei was still in primary school, and Yuan Yuan, the second daughter of ZSZSZSZ's family, was in the second grade of junior high school. We went to Xiao Yan's home, and the brother and sister never said a word to us. Xiao Yan never guides their guests to say hello, say hello or get up to pour them a cup of tea. Anyway, I have never heard them say "sister", and I still do after 67 years. I can't help feeling weak. What happened to my brothers and sisters?
My cousin just added two treasures last year, and we went to see them together. Xiaoyu is my cousin's eldest daughter. She just entered junior high school. Xiaoyu was watching TV when we went in. Xiaoyu didn't even lift her eyelids when she saw so many of our relatives go in. Her grandmother, that is, my second aunt, said that the child has been at home alone and can't talk. At noon, we went to a restaurant to eat. Xiaoyu didn't say a word Everyone talked to her, but she didn't respond. During this whole process, my brother-in-law and cousin never said a word about children. In their eyes, it is normal for children not to talk! Later, we talked about this problem of children, and they felt that it didn't matter. Maybe the children were still young, junior high school was in a rebellious period, and there was a generation gap with adults. If only they grew up! I can't help thinking deeply. I didn't want to talk when I was a child. Can you really talk when you grow up? And is this really just a question of children's rebellion? Rebellious people don't even say hello to their elders
Is this a problem for children or parents? Children don't even say hello when they see guests from home. This should be a problem for parents. When children were very young, they refused to say hello to their elders. You said this was a forgivable child. The child is in junior high school and still doesn't want to talk. You said that the child is rebellious, nothing; The child is in high school and still doesn't talk. You said that there is a generation gap between the child and us, and it will be fine when he grows up. Of course, some children have grown up and changed a lot. What if your child grows up? When children are very young, there are guests at home. Why don't parents guide their children to greet and entertain guests? Children don't talk, after all, who cares if they are not their own children! But when the children grow up, go to work and meet colleagues, the leaders will say nothing, which will definitely have a great impact on the work prospects. Society is not your small family, no one will tolerate your problems and no one will pay for them.
People are social animals, so it is very important to have the ability to communicate with others. In the future, social artificial intelligence will replace many jobs, and our children need to cultivate abilities that artificial intelligence cannot replace, such as imagination, creativity and divergent thinking ability. One of the biggest advantages of human beings is that machines don't have it, and that is the communication advantage. When a machine speaks, we can tell that it is a machine, because it has an inherent pattern, and human language has many unique charms. Sometimes even if you don't say it, you can understand what others mean, tacitly, listen to the voice and listen to the implication. This is the advantage of people. Children can talk, express, communicate, infect, publicize and summon, which are their absolute advantages in the future. Parents can start with small things. When guests come to our home, we should call them to say hello after greeting the children. Usually, when someone takes the initiative to talk to their children, parents should not speak for their children and guide them to express themselves; When chatting with children, guide them to express one thing and express their feelings, which will not only narrow the distance between them, but also let them vent their bad emotions. Parents will definitely get more than one point if they pay more for the saplings that their children are trying to grow up! I hope every child can be treated gently by society!