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Is it meaningful to have a dutiful son under the stick? Do you recognize this kind of education?
There is some truth, but I don't agree with this view.

In today's society, this kind of education should be abandoned, because parents and teachers are the people who have the greatest influence on children. Too strict education will cause children's personality defects, and even lead to autism and cowardice, which will be a "nightmare" with children all their lives.

In the eyes of the older generation of parents, children should be "educated" if they are disobedient and don't study hard. Education here is to oppress children by force and force them to yield to their majesty. As everyone knows, this kind of education will leave huge hidden dangers;

It is reported that many children who have suffered from domestic violence for a long time will plant the seeds of "hatred" in their young hearts. What they often think about is not how to repay their parents when they grow up, but how to get rid of their parents' bondage as soon as possible. I have a child whose sister is a good example.

Because his family has a serious preference for boys, and his sister is the first child in the family, the whole family is not good to her, even if she makes a little mistake, she will be scolded or beaten by her parents. Later, when I was born, the resentment at home seemed to subside a little, but her life was still very difficult, and being beaten and scolded accompanied her growth.

At the age of sixteen, she got the last two slaps, and then she couldn't stand this oppressive family any longer and ran away from home. Up to now, six years have passed, and she hasn't been home once, only that she has been married outside and has her own children.

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"Stick education" will only make parents farther and farther away from their children's hearts, and even lead to irreparable tragedy in the end. Therefore, we should reject this kind of education.