Is the best education.
Be kind to yourself. No longer child-centered
Writer Su Qin said: "All women's anxiety and anger are abused." I'm impressed by this.
Too many mothers in life often treat themselves badly in order to give their children a good life; Reluctant to eat and wear, even if you work hard, you should let your children enjoy the best material. However, don't be kind to your mother, and you won't get the respect and gratitude of your child; On the contrary, the mother's demanding of her barren gas field often stifles the whole family atmosphere. Being kind to yourself is not to encourage your mother to pursue luxury, but to be kind to yourself on the basis of existing materials.
A good life is also the best education for children.
Many mothers think that educating their children means teaching them a lot. In fact, a good mother is the best education for her children.
Dong Qing said, "What kind of person do you want your children to be? It's simple. Just be what you want to be. "
Only when the mother has a good life can the children feel the power of love in her, follow her example, face the world bravely and be true to themselves.
Only by accepting yourself can we accept ordinary children.
When mothers place too much trust in their children, they often try to change their children through cross-border control. The greater the expectation, the greater the disappointment and the stronger the control. If the child can't resist, he can only fight back in a cold way. Every child is a unique individual, but unfortunately, there are too many mothers in life who take "other people's children" as the perfect standard and can't let go of the obsession of cultivating a perfect child.
Enrich yourself and release your love for your children from the inside out.
Many women have parted ways with "exquisiteness" since they became mothers, and household clothes have become work clothes, and untidiness has become the norm for many mothers. In this regard, the mothers' answers are very helpless: "I have to take care of my family, take care of my children, and have no time to tidy up myself."
We first fill the cup in front of us and be happy from the heart, and then we can spill our happiness to others.
In fact, love is also a release. Only when a mother loves herself from the heart can she release her love for her children from the inside out and subtly teach her children the ability of "how to love".
Only when the mother has a good life can the children feel the power of love in her, follow her example, bravely face the world and be true to themselves.
An optimistic mother brings up a full-fledged child.
There is a saying that tells the true meaning of education: "Excellent children are not miracles created out of thin air, and there are traces behind them." "And this trace is the parents behind the children. They are the roots of children and the soil for their growth.
Parents use their wise, positive and optimistic attitude towards life to infect and influence their children's outlook on life and values.
In fact, love is also a release. Only when a mother loves herself from the heart can she release her love for her children from the inside out and subtly teach her children the ability of "how to love".
Only when the mother has a good life can the children feel the power of love in her, follow her example, bravely face the world and be true to themselves.