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Zhang Feng is 37 years old this year. He had a failed marriage. He married his ex-wife eight years ago. In order to give his wife and children a better life, he sacrificed time with his family and put more time and energy into his work. Seeing that their career has improved step by step, their family's economic situation has also made a qualitative leap, but their feelings have problems.
The ex-wife complained that her husband knew his job like the back of his hand and had no time to spend with himself, let alone spend Valentine's Day with him. Even on the wedding anniversary, sometimes he has to work overtime all night. His ex-wife became more and more dissatisfied with Zhang Feng's behavior, became more and more lonely, and longed to be cared for, so she cheated. After this incident, their marriage came to an end. In order to obtain custody of her five-year-old son, Zhang Feng chose to run away from home. Father and son depend on each other, and Zhang Feng cherishes this son very much and does not allow him to suffer a little injustice.
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Divorced for three years, the child is eight years old and is beginning to understand. Every time he sees other children in primary school, he has a mother to pick them up, but he has no mother to pick them up. Sometimes children will see their father smoking on the balcony alone, which is very unhappy. He knows that he needs a mother and his father needs a partner. So he begged his father to say, "Dad, why do other children have mothers to pick me up from school, but I don't?" Do you want to find me a new mother? I want to have a mother to play with me. " Zhang Feng realized that the child needed maternal love, so he began to find someone to introduce the blind date.
After countless blind dates, he fell in love with young and beautiful Xiaoyu, who was also fascinated by this mature and responsible man, and they soon fell in love. Zhang Summit gives Xiaoyu some life advice based on his own experience. Xiaoyu will often go to Zhang Feng's house to clean the housework and play with Zhang Feng's son. My son also likes this young and kind aunt very much.
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When two people talked about marriage, they were strongly opposed by Xiaoyu's parents. How do you say Xiaoyu is also high flyers, young and beautiful? What man is hard to find? Must I find a man who is ten years older than her and has an eight-year-old son? However, Xiaoyu seems to have identified this man. No matter how her parents beat and scold her, she just wants to marry Zhang Feng, and she is not married yet, so she clamors with Zhang Feng and his wife and is very affectionate.
Although Xiaoyu's attitude is firm, she also knows that Zhang Feng and his ex-wife's children may be obstacles to their marriage. So she tentatively asked Zhang Feng: Husband, can you take your son to see your mother-in-law? As a result, I didn't expect Zhang Feng's attitude to be very firm, and immediately refused to say: No, he is my son, and we are married, that is, your son. Obviously, we have the ability and time to grow up with him. Why did you give him to my mother? My mother is old, and I don't feel at ease when she takes care of her children.
Xiaoyu is a little under the weather. She was silent for a long time before she expressed her concern: you only know how to love your son. Will you still love ta so much when we have children? I am a big girl who married you, not for your house, nor for your money. Can't you promise me such a small request? It is said that stepmother is difficult to do. I am eight years old this year. I'm really afraid that if I don't do well, he will hate me in the future. However, Zhang Feng's attitude is very firm, and she must take care of the children by herself. Neither of them convinced anyone, and they were deadlocked for a while.
Conclusion: Marriage involves two families. If you remarry, it may involve four families. I don't know if there are any twists and turns. Whatever the reason, two people should respect each other when they remarry. As far as this article is concerned, both Zhang Feng and Xiao Yu have actually done something wrong. For example, Zhang Feng should know more about Xiao Yu, a yellow flower girl who married a divorced man with a "child". This sincerity is enough to show her feelings for Zhang Feng. She has her own considerations, and her stepmother is difficult to serve. Zhang Feng should give Xiaoyu more space and time. Instead of forcibly kidnapping Xiaoyu with her own requirements, Xiaoyu will feel that she only loves her children and does not love her. At the same time, Xiaoyu should not deprive the child of his father's love just because he is married. This is unfair to children and unacceptable to Zhang Feng. Therefore, if you can't negotiate well and stick to your own ideas, there is no need to get married. Otherwise, it is a kind of torture for two people or even two families.