What teachers need is to combine leniency with severity. It is not enough to be gentle.

Teachers really need bodhisattva's heart, but they must be masculine.

As a teacher, the ideal effect should be a bird in the forest. Only an orderly classroom can have a good teaching effect.

If the female teacher is too gentle, although everyone knows that she is also a good teacher, it is still difficult for her to control the class order. That's because thinner students, students who don't want to learn, and students who want to make fun of their teachers really exist in the class.

A gentle female teacher who can't even control the class order, it's a joke for you to let her be the head teacher.

The work of the head teacher is very complicated. Although class cadres and school leaders can help deal with some problems, they are the core of the work and need to do many things by themselves.

Some work needs patience and care, some work needs careful planning, some work needs persuasion, and some work needs mandatory orders.

It is difficult for an overly gentle female teacher to do such a thing about mandatory orders. Even if it is done, it will not have a good effect.

I once saw a junior high school principal who asked a gentle female teacher with five or six years' teaching experience to be the head teacher of the second grade when the head teacher was short of manpower. As a result, only two months later, the class was chaotic. This female teacher is almost schizophrenic. Go on holiday to recuperate.

"Kindness does not lead the class" is still very reasonable. As long as it is too gentle, let alone a female teacher, even a male teacher. Because today's students are not generally difficult to manage. (Except experts. )

"Kindness is not the foreman", and a female teacher who is too gentle is not suitable to be a class teacher, which makes sense.

First of all, there are some basic principles of class management, such as: the principle of encouraging all staff, the principle of independent participation, the principle of combining discipline with training, the principle of rationality, the principle of parallel management, and the principle of coordination. Principles should not be compromised. Too gentle female teachers will indeed violate the principle because they can't bear it, which will lead some students to push their luck and violate the class rules.

Secondly, "goodness" and "strictness" should be dialectically unified, which will only make the relationship between teachers and students tense. Combining leniency with severity is the secret of a good class teacher's success, and "being a teacher first, then being a teacher" is the magic weapon of a successful class teacher.

Thank you for your invitation. I'm teacher Shu Xin. I have been a class teacher for more than 20 years, and I quite agree with this sentence. I am deeply troubled by this!

Because I am a soft-hearted person, students are not afraid of you when they look at your face; As a result, doing things is really heartless. For example, when the children are sleeping in class in summer, sometimes I can't bear to wake up the students. The child didn't do a good job on duty, so he rushed to do it himself. In fact, this is not a good habit. After a long time, they really dare to coquetry in front of you!

Especially when children make mistakes in the teacher's office, some male teachers will kick a few feet, or some teachers will punish students dozens or hundreds of times when they make mistakes in their homework. In this way, the students will not be afraid of me, and some things will be affected in the implementation!

In fact, the work of the head teacher over the years is summarized as follows:

A good class teacher must pay equal attention to kindness and prestige!

Speak principles, set norms first, don't fight or punish, but students should be able to carry out what you say. There is love in strictness, but this love really needs to be hidden in my heart first!

I remember when I was twenty years old, I just went to work and worked as a class teacher in a rural middle school. I live on campus with my students. I spend almost every day in my class, caring for the students in every possible way, eating and playing with them!

As a result, my classmates like me very much, but there are always some naughty boys who go out to make trouble for me. They seem to be right to the teacher, but they are soft-hearted and can't do anything about them!

It is also because of a special student, the principal criticized me, which is worth remembering for a lifetime!

Chen Baichun, a boy from Chang Gung Six Team, is the farthest boy from home in our class, nearly 20 miles away! It's dark when he walks home every weekend!

Later, I will give him two classes every Saturday morning, thinking it is safe. As a result, the headmaster quickly criticized me:

"Less than school time, want to ask for leave for the students, something came up on the road, who's in charge?

You are not helping him, but hurting the students! Children are at school, we are guardians, and we should protect students! "

I know I was wrong! Being a class teacher is no small matter!

Too soft-hearted, sometimes it will really spoil the broth!

Love in the strict sense is the best!

Kindness does not mean that there is no principle! Several female teachers who are well done by our head teacher here are loving mothers! To be a class teacher, there must be methods and temperature!

"Kindness has no class", the author does not recognize this sentence. The gentleness of a female teacher does not affect being a class teacher. In our primary school, the head teachers are all female teachers. The picture comes from the internet.

Female teachers are gentle and shine with the brilliance of motherhood. Suitable for children's enlightenment education. Moreover, female teachers are delicate and considerate, and are suitable for educating students to be class teachers.

Too gentle a female teacher is not suitable to be a class teacher? Wrong, as long as she is a female teacher in charge of the class, she will become a "female man". The head teacher has long been a "generalist", dealing with students every day, managing discipline, hygiene, teaching students knowledge and dealing with so many trivial "things".

The picture comes from the internet.

Gentleness is only a part of the female teacher's personality, and she is steady and honest, "doing things with great efficiency", caring and patient. Of course, it is popular with students, and teachers should have personality charm. I don't entirely agree with this statement. A female teacher who is too gentle is not suitable to be a class teacher.

To be a good head teacher is not a teacher of any character, but a teacher of personality charm, knowledge level and work art.

I still remember my father, who works in a middle school, once told me that a female teacher in their school had never seen her give lectures to students, but the students listened to her.

I thought to myself at that time: I want to be such a teacher. Actually, I did. Many teachers have said in front of me: You are the gentlest teacher in our school.

I want to say: I don't pretend to be gentle, this is my character. Then how can I convince the students?

Personality charm ... Personality charm runs through every detail of daily life and is the comprehensive effect of many factors. I think there must be heartfelt love, respect and consideration for children, as well as solid basic skills in classroom teaching. Teachers' classroom teaching is fascinating, students' learning is relaxed and enjoyable, and humorous and decent language can capture students' hearts best. When they sincerely convince you, majesty naturally exists.

Teachers all know this sentence: To give students a glass of water, teachers must have a bucket of water. Teachers are rich in professional knowledge, and they can draw inferences from others, whether in classroom teaching or after-class counseling. If they can have other specialties besides professional subjects, it will be easier to win the hearts of students.

The art teacher's work is particularly trivial, and he has to worry about everything. How to reduce the major events to minor ones, prevent minor ones, and let "troubles" disappear in the bud really requires the accumulation of experience. But whether young teachers or old teachers, the most basic principle is:

Teachers need wisdom to solve problems. Simple and rude seems to be useful for a while, but it will lead to endless troubles. Only the education of spring breeze and rain can have a longer-term effect.

It's really difficult to be a class teacher. If you pick up a class casually, the gentle teacher needs to pay more in the early stage, but it doesn't mean that the gentle teacher is not suitable to be a class teacher. Experience is accumulated in practice. "Practice makes perfect", as long as you don't exclude this job from your heart and are willing to think about improvement, you can certainly do it well!

Of course, especially strict teachers are more likely to make achievements, because many students are lazy and they will bully the weak and fear the hard. However, now it is very strict and easy to "have an accident"-the severity is really difficult to grasp, and it is not necessarily stuck in their hands at any time.

Seeing this problem, first of all, I don't agree with this view, because I am a gentle female teacher who has been teaching for a long time and my grades are good. There is no fixed method for education and teaching, but there are methods. The head teacher is really a human job. It can be said that every student needs a specific method to educate. Let's share my classmates' comments on me:

First, not strict, but kind.

A moderately depressed child stayed in my class for two years. When he graduated, he shared with his younger brothers and sisters: Mr. H is not a strict teacher, but a caring teacher. Students, when you encounter unhappy things, remember to look for teacher H. She is sometimes like a mother, sometimes like a sister, and sometimes like a friend. It was teacher H's kindness that made me say goodbye to depression and let me laugh like an ordinary person.

One advantage of strict teachers is that they are strict and make students afraid and obedient. I think this kind of strictness and obedience is only superficial and unacceptable verbally. And a gentle and loving female teacher makes students obey, verbally and from the heart. Children obey you from the heart and will listen to you.

Second, understand the students' hearts.

I grew up timid, and I hope the teacher can treat me gently when I study. Empathy, although I became a teacher, I think students, as children, certainly hope that teachers can be gentle with him. Because of my gentleness, students are not afraid of me, which is also my weakness. As a female teacher, taking tough measures against students is no better than students, especially some naughty boys. You are strong, maybe he is better than you. There is an idiom called "softhearted". Facts have proved that the tougher boys (and girls) are more willing to accept the soft method.

For my timid classmates, I am gentle with them. Treat them gently, they no longer have a sense of distance from the teacher, because they are not afraid, so they are willing to communicate with me. Therefore, let them feel the care of the teacher, enhance their self-confidence and make them more and more courageous.

Naughty boys' evaluation of me is: only Mr. H knows our hearts best and can grasp our psychology best. We are willing to listen to Mr. H.

Third, make friends with students.

The word "friend" of "friend" is composed of two identical words "month", which shows that two people who can become friends are the same and equal. Because of my gentleness, I don't feel superior to my students, but treat them equally with me. So my relationship with students is like a friend, and because I am a "teacher", I am a mentor.

When the students graduated, they said to me, "Mr. H, when we have money, we will invite you to dinner when we come back." If I don't get rich, then you invite us to dinner. " I replied, "Deal, but it must be you who invite me to dinner, because you will definitely make a fortune." .

It is not easy for a class teacher to take care of students. You can think about it. A father and a mother are exhausted with only one child. And a class teacher, with fifty or sixty children, has different personalities, so you can imagine how difficult it is. No matter what kind of class teacher, as long as he can successfully lead a class of students out of school, his merits are boundless.

Disapprove! Kindness does not mean weakness without principles. It means love, kindness, kindness and loving mother.

Have a loving heart and be tolerant, caring and patient with students. Such female teachers and pupils like it very much. I once met a first-grade female teacher, who often held her children in her lap after class, surrounded by a large circle of children and chattered endlessly.

There is a Zhang Shanliang's face. Children not only like young and beautiful, lively and cheerful female teachers, but also like kind and amiable middle-aged female teachers. They often look at the children talking to her with smiling expressions, which immediately brings the students closer to each other. They will tell a lot of their secrets, and such teachers will bring them.

Students will not have psychological problems.

Have a loving heart. When the students are noisy, she will look at the children with silent facial expressions. It only takes a few seconds, and the child will stop making trouble at once. As a result of yelling loudly, the student will either be scared for a long time, or deliberately resist, or although he is obedient on the surface, he has been whispering and angry inside, and he is not in the mood to continue his class.

Like a loving mother, she always pays attention to the students' performance and reaction. In hot weather, she will guide students to open the window in time, in cold weather, she will remind students to close the window in time, ask them in time if they are uncomfortable, and fight will be gently discouraged. Even if students are furious and pouting, they will not get angry, but use static braking to resolve conflicts.

In short, gentle and loving female teachers are more popular with primary school students. As a teacher, how to manage students more effectively, everyone has his own set of experiences and methods. No matter what his temper is, it is most important to grasp the principle. He can neither let himself go with the flow unprincipled, nor be tough and importune. It is very effective to manage students in different occasions and places, not to be angry or arrogant at critical moments, and to be happy in leisure.

It is best to be a kind class teacher.

Chairman Mao once said that there is no love and hate for no reason. This is completely different from the universal love of bodhisattvas and buddhas. It reflects the deep responsibility of the class teacher for the children's future performance, the loyalty of loving their posts and dedication, and the selfless degree of dedication to the people's education. Especially the class teachers and their teachers in poor mountainous areas, if they don't love those poor children, the teachers can't stay in that place for a day! How can we allow the concept of "kindness without class" to appear?

Let's not talk about class feelings and class positions now, but in China, we should do everything conscientiously, be worthy of the broad masses of working people, look at problems from the standpoint of ordinary people, do things, be a man and make contributions. Otherwise you will make mistakes, which is an indisputable fact. Bad children should be strictly disciplined, but this has nothing to do with "kindness without class"

The head teacher of my daughter's junior high school mainly reprimands and scolds students all day, and satirizes and threatens the parents of poor students. And whoever does well in the exam will brag about who and whose parents. At the end of every parent-teacher conference, parents who are "flattered" and "suppressed" will quietly scold the class teacher. Because my home is close to the school, I often have to see the class teacher. Before I saw him from a distance, I quickly avoided him and didn't want to bow to her from the bottom of my heart. Since my daughter was promoted to work, every time I met the head teacher, I was a stranger, which greatly increased my dislike for her. On the contrary, our whole family is full of gratitude to our daughter's head teacher in primary and secondary schools. To tell the truth, if these two class teachers need help, as long as we can do it, we will definitely lend a helping hand at once! This is the world difference between "kindness" and "unkindness".

Do good things in everything, otherwise it is easy to leave a bad name! !

The answer to this question should not be absolute. It should be said that teachers with different personalities should have their own advantages when taking classes. The gentleness of female teachers, if used reasonably, is also a "sharp weapon" for management.

Different class characteristics need different management methods to adapt. In some classes, students need the rule of law, and some may need to be soft. In addition, the evaluation of the success of teacher management can not be compared from only one aspect, and different angles will have different results. Maybe a gentle teacher is not as easy to get grades as a strict teacher. However, judging from the future development of students, it is difficult to tell the outcome. Many students who have graduated for many years often go back to school to visit their gentle teachers. In retrospect, they feel that teachers have the attraction of maternal love when they are at school. For those teachers who are famous for their strictness and high marks, memories are sometimes cold.

Therefore, teachers with different personalities, as long as they do it wholeheartedly, will have a shining side. The meaning of success is different from different angles, so the answer to this question is not absolute.