1, Chiang Rai has never received a good education since childhood.
My little sister finished high school and my brother graduated from graduate school. Only Chiang Rai dropped out of school at a young age for his younger brother to study, that is to say, he did not receive school education. Education at home is even more lacking. It is mentioned in the play that Chiang Rai should follow her mother to apologize to others even if she was bullied since childhood. How can this teach him to stand up straight?
And judging from what her mother-in-law said to her two sons in private, the Wangs actually have a lot of inner calculations, which makes it difficult for Qinglai to have a big pattern! I think family education is probably the key to open the gap between celebration and happiness!
2, family exposure.
It's important to come from a family. Wang Youde's personality in this nest is really irritating. It is hard to imagine that his father will not influence his son. In addition, Wang Qinglai followed his father to work in the fields every day since childhood. When two people are together for so long, they will certainly be influenced more or less imperceptibly.
3. Sequelae of being bullied since childhood
Judging from several things that Wang Qinglai has done, he holds a negative attitude towards others and social order. He thinks that you can't do things without giving gifts. In addition, he sells vegetables, rents a house and looks for a job, but he can't get the expected results. His first reaction was that others bullied him instead of thinking about objective reasons first. My analysis is that he was bullied since he was a child, and his whole family had no position in the village, which led to his distrust of others, disrespect for social order and fear.
4. Nature has been given a chance to be released.
In the village, everyone knows the root of the matter. At the wedding, someone teased him. It takes three slaps to make a fart. My parents are pressing me at home, and I am used to bowing my head outside. But in the city, it's different. At home, I am the oldest, a daughter-in-law, a brother and my own brother. I don't want to put on airs.
Outside, no one knows anyone. I found that Chiang Rai spoke more fluently. After being a security guard, there are people who speak well in their ears, which is even more floating! Therefore, his thoughtfulness and bad temper were forced to be honest only because he had nowhere to display them before.