A family, even if a poor family is surrounded by people, is still a temple in children's hearts and a harbor of happiness as long as there is a kind, thrifty, optimistic and tidy woman to take care of it. Mom, the product that makes the greatest contribution to society is your child. In addition to spontaneous love, mothers must also learn the art of education, otherwise, any educational reform will be futile.
The image of a mother will affect everyone's life from beginning to end. Many people may not realize this, but it is an undeniable fact. When a person grows up, as long as his or her mother is around, everything about her mother, her image, her manners, her habits, her consciousness and so on. Will unconsciously affect children, and those children are you, me and him in life-
A strong mother teaches her children not to be timid in the face of difficulties.
In people's minds, women are regarded as representatives of the weak, and it seems that only men deserve the word "strong". In fact, in real life, people who really encounter difficulties are not afraid of hardships. It is often those women who always look weak. They are even stronger and more persistent than men in some aspects. Like Ms. Wang Guiquan (Liang Qichao's second wife), after Liang Qichao's death, she spent unimaginable years with her nine children. Even in the turbulent decade, she did not shake her firm belief. After her death, Liang Sicheng and her brothers and sisters planted a "mother tree" in front of her father's grave to commemorate this strong mother.
Second, a broad-minded mother lets her children learn to look to the future.
Women's minds have always been described by literati as narrow-minded, selfish and short-sighted, and there is even a saying that women have long hair and short knowledge. It seems that only men's breasts are broad in the world, and women's breasts are just narrow paths in the mountains. However, there are many women's hearts that we admire. These broad-minded women let us know how precious a mother is in the most difficult times. Tomoko Sato (Guo Moruo's cohabiting woman in Japan), a woman that modern people may not know, raised five underage children alone after Guo Moruo left Japan, and did not see Guo Moruo again until fifteen years later.
Third, a kind mother lets her children know how to be compassionate.
The most terrible thing in human society is the cruelty of behavior and the indifference of spirit, but none of us can deny that many people can't seem to escape these two tragic realities. Although these two situations are sometimes caused by "force majeure", they are mostly caused by human factors. That is to say, some people have never had a kind mother since childhood, and their personalities are seriously distorted. Although the feeling of "sympathy for others" is cultivated and educated, its root still comes from the kindness of my mother when I was a child. Bill Gates once said that what he got from his mother was "piety and kindness". People can see the influence of Bill Gates' mother from his large donations to poor areas in the world.