How to give children the right sex education?
1 and sex education before the age of 3
Parents should reasonably express their love for their children and teach them how to treat their bodies. Parents' attitudes towards sex and sex education will affect their children's attitudes towards sex in the future. Children should be given enough warmth and caress when they are born, so that they can feel safe, establish trust with others and get happiness. Parents generously tell their children scientific knowledge, communicate frankly and talk about sex-related topics.
2, 3~6 years old to know your body.
After the age of three, the child's neurophysiology gradually matures and sexual exploration activities naturally begin. This is a normal physiological phenomenon. Parents and teachers can tell children the scientific names and functions of various organs through children's picture books, videos and mannequins, so that children can understand and love their bodies from an early age. Most parents are embarrassed to tell their children the names of reproductive organs in the process of education. In fact, as long as they naturally say the name of vagina or penis, they can carry out the next family education. Tell the child that his private parts should not be touched or peeked by others, nor should he touch or peek at others when taking a shower.
3, 6~8 years old to identify sexual assault signals
There are many abnormal people in modern society. Preventing child sexual abuse is the most important lesson in sex education. Parents need to raise their children's awareness of self-protection and minimize the chances of being infringed. If someone makes uncomfortable physical contact with a child, asks for a hug or a touch, takes photos of his private parts with his mobile phone, steals his private parts while his family is away, he must refuse, and then runs to a crowded place for help to protect himself.
4. adolescence
In adolescence, children are educated about the morphology and physiology of male and female reproductive organs, so that children can understand menstruation, nocturnal emission and health care knowledge and face masturbation correctly. Parents and teachers should give correct guidance, provide frank and normal communication, develop pure friendship between classmates and prevent puppy love or sexual behavior. In addition, we should strengthen the self-protection education for girls. Schools can borrow materials such as textbooks or videos for sex education.