First of all, children do not have a correct understanding of the whole world outlook and need the correct guidance of parents. If parents are irresponsible, children can only explore and understand. Secondly, parents are teachers for their children all their lives. When children are confused, help them point out the right direction. Parents have not fulfilled their responsibilities, and children are like boats floating in the sea. Since our parents gave him life, please be more responsible for him! After all, children are the continuation of parents' lives.
How to judge parents' irresponsible education? It's just that each parent's education level, thinking and understanding of education are different! What was the so-called education of parents in their sixties and seventies at that time? I think many old people will say that you can grow up by eating, drinking and drinking. Who knows how to educate them? It's just parents' words and deeds. Let's see what we can learn.
Our hometown has a father who is an alcoholic. Maybe I woke up during the busy farming season and knew how to harvest crops. All three children are college students. When they grow up, they don't care about their father and are not crooked. Of course, this is an example. In the past, social media was underdeveloped, and the external environment was effectively controlled without affecting children. At present, the external environment has a great influence, but many parents don't know how to mediate their relationship and don't give proper guidance at the right time, which has caused some problems to their children, but it doesn't mean that parents don't want to be responsible. I think it's just that the method doesn't work.
Parents' irresponsible education for their children will gradually develop in two major directions: one is because parents' irresponsible education has intensified, knowing that their parents are wrong, but they are extremely disappointed with the world! Slowly numb, world-weary! On the other hand, because we have experienced such a bad thing, because of the pain, we feel the same way and reflect on our own experiences, so as to try to change the world and reduce such things. Positive. I don't know what is the connection point, turning point and event probability between these two situations, but I think it always develops in these two directions! We should really pay attention to this matter, which is related to a growing environment and situation for future generations.
Education is irresponsible, and it must be the children's parents who bear the consequences. Parents with incorrect outlook on life are particularly apt to mislead their children. For those ruthless Xiong Haizi who grew up, they basically lack a correct outlook on life, and when they grow up, they are also a group of social black sheep. No matter how successful and rich parents are, poor education for their children will be the biggest failure in life.
There was a poor old man who gave birth to two sons and his wife died. As a result, both sons took drugs. People who are almost 40 will only ask the old man for money all day, and all the pensions will be given to her two sons. People who are glamorous and don't know the inside story think that these two brothers are business leaders. One of the two brothers married a nurse before, but not long after marriage, the girl found that the man was poisoned and decided to leave. Now the two brothers live in the house bought by the old man and gnaw at their money. Their old mother buys good dishes every day and gives them to two big "waste" people who are almost forty years old. Their old mother is still used to it. You said they were two middle-aged men who couldn't take care of themselves. They live a muddy life every day, and their mother is worried that they will starve to death if they don't eat.
Therefore, the old saying is true: loving mothers often fail, and poor people must be hateful. His wife died, at least at the end of her life. When she dies, can she count on her two drug-addicted sons? This is the greatest desolation and misfortune in life.
If you live with the lame, you will learn to limp. If the child is lucky enough to meet some positive people, he will get better gradually. If a child comes into contact with people who have no intention to study and have bad hobbies, he will become such a person sooner or later. This is the result of parents' irresponsibility, which leads children to drift with the tide. "Don't teach, be sexually active." Therefore, parents should shoulder the heavy responsibility of educating their children.