We are always used to expecting too much from our children. For example, we expect a child to get an A, but maybe he can only get a C in fact. Excessive expectations will make children feel helpless, powerless, and even resist your demands (giving up learning, making false efforts, and being indifferent).

If we re-match the expectations of children according to their actual ability level and lower the expectations to B, your requirements can be achieved by children through hard work, which also gives children confidence in continuous progress and improvement.

? Give your child some time to grow up and allow him to slowly go from C to B, so that he can go from B to A step by step.