be deeply attached to each other
A Juan's Dabao and Erbao are 3 years old. The two little guys are very good. My sister knows how to impress your brother with humility. A Juan said, since borage, I have never had feelings for my daughter. In the evening, my father helped me take Erbao away. I will play games and tell stories with my daughter; On weekends, fathers often take their daughters with them. Therefore, the birth of Erbao did not make her daughter feel that her parents lacked "love". So my daughter especially likes to argue for your brother, and nothing can help my mother take care of Erbao.
Don't like each other
Hua's husband married two people and never bumped into each other. Hua married his daughter. Her daughter 13 years old at that time. I have no plans to regenerate, but I am in my husband's family, and Ahua has a Baguio. Before Erbao, AW and her husband paid more attention to their eldest daughter, but Erbao was born and they were put into a small body. The eldest daughter's grades have soared and people have become particularly rebellious. Hua often tells her daughter, who knows her daughter didn't, but in private, I often tell this little sister secretly. Therefore, Erbao doesn't like to play with her elder sister, and she is even extremely afraid of her eldest daughter.
But ignore each other.
Chun's two sons are only one year old. The envied anchor points out that two children saved the whole province. In fact, these two sons are particularly dissatisfied. There are few things between the two sons, no one and no one. Sometimes even more indifferent than strangers. So Ah Chun often worries about the relationship between such a child's growth and mutual support?
After in-depth conversation with the eldest son, A Chun knew that the relationship between the two children was cold, mainly because of the parents' attitude towards the younger son. As it turns out, A Chun was in good health during her pregnancy, and Er Bao was so weak that she was often ill, so parents paid more attention to her younger son and had a good diet, and always let her brothers accompany you for a long time. Comfortable, not happy to see my brother; The younger son fell in love with his parents and always wanted to bully his younger brother, which led to their relationship.
For parents, if two children can be the best two dolls, it has nothing to do with children, and parents should do their best. Several jobs.
Tuidaba
If you want to keep two pets, you'd better communicate with Dabao in advance, and then prepare to keep them for your baby later. On the one hand, I respect Dabao, on the other hand, I will have a period of time to accept the reality that "I must have a brother". Generally speaking, Dabao is hostile to the possibility of ozone in advance.
Choose a fixed time to get along with Dabao.
After birth, parents seem to be busier. But no matter how busy, it takes parents half an hour to an hour. Only on this special day can they play games with Dabao and write with their children, so that children can feel that their parents love them. For example, dad will be a mother tonight and tomorrow, so there is no shortage of company, because Dabao won't hurt Erbao's birth.
Parents regulate their words and deeds.
There are two children at home, and parents' tentative things must be fair. It is wrong to make sentences according to events. Don't force Dabao to "do everything". At the same time, no matter what the older baby does wrong, parents should keep their mouths shut and not surpass their children. Because with the arrival of Erbao, Dabao will become very sensitive. A small stimulus will hurt a child's fragile mind.