1, communicate with children more. While parents are busy with their work, they must also take as much time as possible to get to know their children, communicate with them, and try to fully grasp their performance at school and at home. In this way, once the child is really disobedient, parents can understand how to guide the child instead of punishing the child to solve the problem. Let the child know that his parents understand him. In this way, children can also feel the love and care of their parents, thus actively correcting their mistakes.
2, everything should be reasonable with children. When children are disobedient or willful, parents should not only communicate with their children in daily life, but also pay attention to their own educational methods. Parents should reason with their children more, and they can educate sensible children without beating and cursing. Parents should be more reasonable with their children in real life, let them have empathy, and let them learn to put themselves in their own shoes and realize their own shortcomings.
Parents should not set a negative example for their children. Parents are the first teachers in children's life, and children in childhood have a strong imitation ability, which is easily influenced by family environment and parents' education methods. In order to reduce children's bad behavior, parents must change the way of education and resolutely put an end to unreasonable ways to punish children.
Facts have proved that through the above methods, children are more likely to accept their parents' opinions spontaneously and the educational effect is more ideal.