Education is a very vague word. How do parents understand education? Are you talking about superfluous words, mathematics and physics, or the basic principles of being a man?

It takes ten years to grow trees and a hundred years to nurture people. The most important thing is to cultivate people. Whether parents have knowledge or not will naturally have a certain influence, but the most important thing is virtue. The behavior of parents directly affects children, because children will learn from their parents. Parents are loyal and have good character, and children will naturally become a good person. This is the most important thing since ancient times.

Therefore, a good parent is not necessarily a scholarly family, a deep academic background or a lot of money. There are naturally many good parents. However, parents who are good in moral character, optimistic and positive, love their children and follow their example in virtue will naturally be good parents, and children will naturally become people with good moral character. People with good personality will naturally get a good education, because no one will not like children with good personality.

Do children have to beat and scold before they can be educated?

Parents are the best role models for children. Instead of beating and cursing, it is better to be a good example and become an idol in children's minds. After all, the power of example is infinite.

How can we educate our children well?

Don't beat and scold, this is the most stupid way of education, which is easy to cause stress and shadow to children's psychology.

I want to regulate my behavior in my work, study and life, and my parents are always the best teachers! In fact, what children see is what their parents say and do.

Let him have more contact with the outside world. This kind of social ability is more important than learning!

Communicate more! This is a must! Especially adolescence!

Take him to exercise more!

That's all. I hope your children grow up.

Parents are role models for their children. What can we do to educate them?

Parents and children have the earliest, most and longest contact, so they are the most direct and concrete examples for children to learn. Parents' words and deeds will exert a subtle influence on children's participation, just like a textbook without words. In front of children, parents' ideological and moral quality is not a trivial matter. To educate children to have high social morality, parents themselves should strive to become such people. As the great writer Tolstoy said, "The essence of educating children lies in educating themselves, and self-education is the most powerful way for parents to influence their children." Therefore, the key for parents to set an example for their children is to find out what is good and what is not, and try to teach them good things as examples.

How can we educate our children well?

How to educate children well is a long-term and confusing task. It is a very important period for children from 0 to 6 years old. Parents often don't attach importance to their children's education in this period. During this period, children's study, life and good habits were gradually formed. At this time, the child is like a blank sheet of paper. In this period, parents should educate step by step, and the main methods must be carried out in play and daily life. To educate them with good quality, in short, education is a long-term work, and parents' hard education and the lack of hard education will be reflected in the days to come. Education is a delicate process, and it will not be immediate. Being a good parent comes at a price. Hehehe, I wish you success!

How can we educate our children well?

Then let the children play enough before learning.

Hello, my friend!

Your question is very good! Indeed, many parents, teachers and even children themselves have similar questions about family education. Everyone hopes to find the most suitable learning materials and educational methods, cultivate children's study and life habits, let children study actively, grow up healthily and happily, and thus achieve the goal of improving children's comprehensive quality. However, a child is a child after all, just like a small sapling. Without correct guidance and training, it is easy to stagger and become a useful person. Every child will always have some shortcomings in personality and behavior, and occasionally make some small mistakes, which will really have a certain negative impact on his study and life. In fact, there are many ways to educate children. You need to think carefully, choose appropriate methods, teaching materials and suggestions, or choose to watch home-school video programs that suit you, so as to be effective and effective. I believe you can get the answer you want from the following analysis of the recommended website video materials.

Under the influence of many factors, such as the current social environment, examination-oriented education mode, and acceptance of western open education, our children are like living in a big dye vat, and they are easily infected with some bad habits, such as willfulness, rebellion, dishonesty, addiction to the Internet, fighting, weariness of learning, active class, inattention, inattention, etc., especially among middle school students in infancy and adolescence. The purpose of education is to correct children's wrong outlook on life, values and world outlook, as well as all kinds of wrong behaviors caused by these concepts. Although there are many ways to educate children, some people adopt the education method of tiger mother and wolf father, and even say "win at the starting line" A person's life is actually a marathon running process. Even if you win the starting line, how far you can run, how long you can persist, and who laughs last is often counterproductive. Therefore, the so-called tiger mother education, whether successful or not, is not worth worshipping, learning and imitating, or even being widely promoted. If corporal punishment educates children to beat them, the consequences may be quite serious, and they will retaliate against their elderly parents and grandchildren in the future, so violent education is harmful! On the contrary, it is more important to cultivate children's healthy personality and optimistic spirit. If you want to educate your children fundamentally and cultivate their good interests and habits in study and life, I suggest you make them like Disciples Rules as soon as possible! Sages teach filial piety again and again, trust and love the masses, love benevolence and virtue, and learn to be an official and filial piety. Parents should call on them not to delay their parents' orders and not to be lazy. Parents should respect their parents' responsibilities, inherit winter and be gentle in summer ... (reading more books will definitely improve children's sense of responsibility and inspire their wisdom). You see, this is really a "filial son", the best tutor! How well written! It is catchy, easy to read and easy to teach. There are also many video story teaching materials on the Internet, and there are also many versions suitable for children at all stages. As a parent, as long as you are willing to encourage your child to watch with you (this is very important, you like to watch with him, children are naturally curious and easily influenced by others), you will definitely make your child like her. If you can work hard in real life and try your best to implement the teaching inside, why not educate your children well?

At the same time, your question involves teenagers' ideological and moral character, behavior language, academic performance and other family education issues, which parents and teachers are very concerned about and eager to solve. Parents' correct educational guidance plays a decisive role in the process of children's healthy growth education. Therefore, in daily family life, parents and children are sincerely recommended to watch the series of documentaries "Sage Education Changing Fate" (also known as Disciples' Discipline), which is a large-scale public welfare forum of excellent China traditional culture education planned and supervised by Chen Dahui. This is a very favorable free network resource about moral education and family education, which can help children feel the truth of life in a happy and grateful atmosphere, help them improve their healthy growth and learning progress, understand why disasters and accidents happen, and avoid disasters. It can prescribe the right medicine for children's various problems and is a good treatment! There must be the answer you need, and it is also a powerful teaching material for our parents and elders to learn. It is indeed a rare classic tutor program! There are many wonderful cases in this program to discuss various ways to solve children's education. It is really the best one-on-one tutor for us and our children, and it is also a very good family education network resource, and it is completely free, which is of great help to the improvement of children's academic performance. In life, children and even adults are prone to various problems, such as lack of perseverance, greed, rebellion and disobedience, internet addiction, puppy love, strong dependence and inattention. These problems can not be fundamentally corrected by some simple methods or measures to become a filial and obedient child, but we need to carry out comprehensive and systematic family education to treat both the symptoms and the root causes. In this film, many experts, teachers and parents speak in person and report to the public with their unique experiences, revealing that parents' educational concepts will directly affect their children's family education. Therefore, it is recommended that parents and children watch together. The family education they received from childhood will affect their children's life, and they will certainly get unexpected gains from it!

There is a classic epigram in the film: people can teach well! Good people are taught, and so are bad people! This shows the importance of family education!

However, at present, we are facing various realities: serious lack of social integrity! Various media exaggerate and mislead, and the environment where children grow up is constantly being destroyed and polluted. It is difficult to do a good job in family education! Parents are getting worse. To tell the truth, many parents don't know how to be parents, so they bring their children into this world and put a lot of educational responsibilities on schools and society. However, parents are children's first teachers, and many growth experiences require parents to set an example. They shirk their responsibilities, how can they educate their children well? Really sad! As children, we often can't understand our parents' thoughts and real experiences, just for our own convenience and enjoyment. To tell the truth, it's a bit of a violation! When we are all parents, we can truly appreciate this feeling, but it is often too late to regret it. Alas ... many so-called generation gaps in our lives are caused by the disjointed and inconsistent education received from generation to generation. Nowadays, too many people are eager for quick success and instant benefit, only paying attention to their own enjoyment and ignoring the feelings of others. You know, all education should start with roots, just like a tree needs roots to grow trunk, branches and leaves, and flourish. If we abandon the fundamental virtue education, everything else will be just castles in the air. I would like to recommend friends who are destined for you. Whether you have seen it or not, please try your best to take time to watch the excellent program of China Traditional Culture Education Forum: "Sage Education Change Destiny" (which can be searched and played on Baidu video or Youku Tudou). I hope everyone who has seen it can get tangible benefits from it and continue to benefit others. Let's work together to create a harmonious social environment.

I hope my answer is helpful and enlightening to you.

Sincerely bless you!

How to educate children well?

This problem is too big, and it is also a problem that many parents want to know, and it is also a problem that many parents who have not educated their children have been struggling with.

I can only say that I am good at observing my children, inspiring them in their specialties, and not imposing parents' wishes and desires on them.

Nowadays, the social pressure is increasing, and the education of children should be diversified. As we all know, under the new social law, reading by death is no longer effective, and the results are average, but children with more comprehensive development can adapt to the social environment better.

Don't spoil children. Parents can't always carry their children on their backs because they are tired. Children are dependent. If you do too much for them, they will do less themselves. Over time, there is no way to develop good habits of life and study.

Whether a child is excellent or not changes slowly, and our educational concept also changes according to the development of a child at a certain age. Know how to listen to children's voices. Don't think what they say is all children's words, angry words. Usually they tell you what they think. If you don't care once or twice, it may be more difficult for you to listen to your child's heart in the future, so that you don't know what the child is thinking.

Sometimes you should tell your children and friends. Don't think they don't know anything. You can tell them what you think. At that time, children will feel that their parents trust him very much, and he has a very important position in their parents' hearts. Then children are willing to tell you the truth, especially now that every family is an only child and children have few friends.

With fewer friends, children have nothing to talk about. They will explore more new things to express their feelings, such as chatting too much online and playing online games too much. All these reflect the psychological problems of teenagers.

My sister's son is now in the third grade of primary school. Of course, I am an educator of Huahua. My sister and brother-in-law often ask me some questions. Their sons are like friends of my sister and brother-in-law. As long as there is a problem, as long as you are reasonable and he thinks you are right, he will do it. He thinks what you said is wrong, and then he will say, "Mom, what do I think ..." He dares to speak his mind and does not have stage fright when he participates in various programs. Children must learn to listen to other people's opinions and express their own views. This is very important.

Now my sister has stipulated that he should study in HuaHua.com for one hour every day. When he finishes the required learning courseware, he can play a quiz in HuaHua.com for a while. He is particularly active, of course, there are clear rewards and punishments.

In short, as long as a family atmosphere is good, children will certainly be educated well. As the saying goes, "parents are the best teachers for children."

Guide and encourage more, but also reflect on your words and deeds at all times.

Guidance is to show all aspects of things to children by demonstration or explanation as much as possible, so that children can make their own judgments and choices. For example, through the exemplary role of parents, let children imitate and learn. Parents' styles, interests, hobbies, habits and other personality characteristics will have a far-reaching impact on children, and some parents even become role models for children to follow all their lives.

Encouragement is to give full play to children's main role in family education and achieve the purpose of education by appreciating children's behavior. Parents' usually approving eyes and encouraging words are likely to change children's lives, especially to enhance their self-confidence. Parents should pay attention to timeliness, diversity and moderation when using encouragement, otherwise the expected effect will not be achieved. Encouraging timeliness means giving affirmation and appreciation immediately when children make progress. Encouraging diversity means directly or indirectly expressing parents' affirmation of their children's behavior in various forms such as eyes, language and material. To encourage moderation is to accurately grasp the scale of praise and seek truth from facts.

If you are interested, you can read Reflections on Children's Success and Family Education (see my library file or Baidu search this file). For your reference, I hope it will help you.

How can we educate our children well?

This is a long-term plan.

First of all, we should do a good job in children's development planning;

Secondly, education is carried out in stages;

Third, timely education, not advanced education. By the age of 12, you can study ahead of time.

Fourth, knowledge education is a knowledge system, which is learned in schools and extracurricular classes.

Fifth, being a man, which is the most important thing, is educated or influenced by parents at home.