First, cultivate children's sense of independence.
Children will be independent sooner or later. During this period, children's sense of independence has become particularly strong, requiring others to respect them. If parents still treat them as children and don't let them go, the children will be disgusted and even have a sense of rebellion and opposition.
Parents must change the way of education, learn to communicate with their children on an equal footing, establish close relationships, participate in their children's growth as friends, support their independence, and give them timely help when they are in trouble. However, we should not indulge children too much. The necessary fulcrum of life is to educate them imperceptibly and help them establish a correct outlook on learning, making friends, love and life.
Second, correctly face setbacks and failures.
High school students have strong self-esteem, and temporary failures and setbacks can easily lead to children's emotional fluctuations, and even lead to depression and depression. Therefore, when a child encounters setbacks and failures, it is not good to analyze the attribution with the child, whether because of poor foundation or lack of diligence. We must not condemn and criticize excessively, but it is not good for the child to communicate with us behind closed doors. Attribution analysis should not be attributed to children's stupidity, which will dampen children's enthusiasm. Tell children that nine times out of ten life will not be smooth sailing. There are setbacks and failures that are not terrible. The terrible thing is to give up yourself, get up from where you fell, and face setbacks and failures bravely.
Third, face emotions and love correctly.
High school children's love, in a good mood, gradually developed into mutual love and appreciation. It is normal for children to like the opposite sex. Don't make a fuss or interfere rudely You can talk to him about life and the future. Only by studying hard and developing better will you meet a better other half, which is the basis for the other half to bring happiness. Encourage children to get rid of the whirlpool of emotions and concentrate on their studies. Where there are no flowers in life, why unrequited love for a flower? The scenery ahead is good, and there are better scenery waiting for him on the distant road.
Fourth, cultivate specialties and develop hobbies.
High school education is to prepare for college education. To learn knowledge well, we should also cultivate hobbies, and it is best to combine them with the majors we will learn in the future to facilitate better development in the future.
Fifth, improve the relationship between teachers and students.
Learn from teachers, find advantages from teachers, and seldom deny teachers in front of children, so as to set up a good image for teachers. Children like teachers, and this course will be better. I believe this is true. In addition, we should also improve our relationship with our classmates. It is for this reason that those who are close to Zhu Zhechi are close to Mexico. Get close to excellent children and you will become excellent children. If you are close to problem children, your children will have many problems.
Sixth, race against time in learning and pay attention to efficiency.
There are many high school courses and great pressure. Do not pay attention to learning efficiency, learn to dawdle and delay, and form a good habit of doing things today. It is better to set up a wrong problem book to check for leaks and fill gaps. The most valuable topic is the wrong one. If you find the wrong topic, you must study it thoroughly, so that you can learn something valuable.
Seven, good students should actively participate in extracurricular competitions, and strive for the advantages of independent enrollment and lower scores.
There are all kinds of competitions in the process of high school study, especially those related to independent enrollment. Students who have spare capacity must give it a try, and seriously prepare for the competition results at or above the provincial level, which is of great help to independent enrollment.
Eight, enjoy life
The study life in high school is very tense. It is also important for Alexander to learn to decompress himself, such as listening to music and jogging.