Educational methods for 6-year-old girls
1, learn to accept children
Because children are approaching primary school, parents will inevitably feel anxious and worry that their children will not be serious in class and will not perform well in school. Actually, there is no need to worry. From this moment on, parents can start to pay attention to the advantages of their children at home and find a little progress every day, even the most insignificant. After discovering the advantages of your child, don't be stingy with praise, but be sure to tell it to your child.
2. Communicate with children more.
When children come home from kindergarten, parents can talk to their children about what happened in kindergarten. Parents should be active listeners, show interest in children's topics, and guide children to express their views more. Why do you think it is? Instead of always rushing to persuade education before the children have finished. On the one hand, it can enhance the feelings with children, on the other hand, it can let parents know more about their children's thoughts and find out the real reasons for their children's speech in class, so as to carry out targeted education and guidance.
3. Cultivate children's good study habits.
Create a quiet environment for children and let them concentrate on learning games at home. When parents are free, they can read books, tell stories, draw pictures and play intellectual games with their children. Don't interfere with a child doing what he likes when he is absorbed in doing things alone.
4. Let children participate in sports more.
High-rise buildings in the city deprive children of the opportunity to get in touch with green space, so that children can't get enough exercise, their brains can't get the corresponding sensory information stimulation, and they are stunted, so there will be symptoms such as lack of attention, excessive movements and poor self-control ability. Therefore, parents can let their children participate in some physical exercises and playful activities in a planned way, and have the opportunity to take their children to nature more, so that their bodies and minds can be released and their knowledge can be increased.
Parents must believe that their children are? Good boy? Don't focus on children's shortcomings, but re-recognize and discover children from many aspects. From another angle, you will find that your child has many advantages to be proud of!
Taboos for parents to educate their children
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This may be a legacy of tradition. Many parents always show a condescending momentum when facing their children. Experts say: parents and children are equal in personality. If parents always pretend to be parents, even if their criticism is sometimes 100% correct, will children? Verbal dissatisfaction? . Therefore, experts suggest that parents should kneel down and talk to their children, so that everyone will feel good.
Seek perfection and blame.
After all, the child is still young. When he is not good at bedding, painting or throwing the ball, his parents should not criticize his performance. If parents are always strict with their children, you are still far from it. , will intentionally or unintentionally hurt their self-esteem.
Praise often.
Don't think that appreciation education means constantly praising children. Actually, this is a misunderstanding. To a greater extent, it means understanding and encouraging children. Too much unnecessary praise will only make children complacent. Moreover, after listening to the exaggerated praise of parents, you may only listen to good words and not listen to negative opinions after entering the society, and your life is easy to be frustrated.
4. Too many restrictions
The world in children's eyes cannot be the same as that in parents' eyes. Too many parents' restrictions will make children feel bound, which is the most disgusting thing for children.
care too much about
? Who called today? What's written in the diary? Parents should ask everything clearly. You should know that excessive concern will only make children feel disgusted, because children will feel that their world has been disturbed by their parents and their living space is being compressed, thus losing the opportunity for special development and even causing my rebellious psychology.
Completely deny
When criticizing children, some parents often make the mistake of criticizing too much, such as? You always lie. No one in our family is as stupid as you. Wait, these words will definitely arouse children's disgust, which will lead to refusal to accept criticism and education, or even produce? Broken cans and broken falls? Thoughts and emotions.
7. it's right and wrong
? The child is catching up with his father in drinking. ? Is this sentence praising or criticizing children? Maybe there will be more praise elements in children's understanding! Therefore, when parents criticize their children, they must talk about the facts and let them know where he is wrong.
8. belittle others
It is natural to compare one's children with children of the same age occasionally, but parents see the advantages of other children more. How can such education achieve good results?
9. Everything has been replaced
Nowadays, many parents don't let their children do anything and have the right to make their own decisions. The reason is to be afraid that the child will fail in the exam or avoid the sadness after the child encounters setbacks. But for children, how can they learn from their mistakes without experiencing failure? Moreover, a child will eventually face a major choice in life one day in the future. If he doesn't cultivate his abilities now, he can't grasp the future by himself.
10. Don't set an example.
Many parents didn't set a good example at the beginning when educating their children. When children imitate some improper behaviors of their parents, parents should blame them a thousand times. Words and deeds, without example, there is no way to talk about words and deeds. Therefore, setting a good example for children can set an example. How do parents educate their children? This is not a simple matter, parents should work harder.