Many people had this experience when they were young: parents often told their children that the conditions at home were not good, told them not to spend money indiscriminately, or reprimanded their children for not understanding their parents' hard work of making money when they wanted something.

Children who grow up under this kind of education may have mental health problems and affect their self-development.

How terrible is crying poor to children's education?

1. Inferiority goes deep into the bone marrow

When children grow up in crying poverty education, it is difficult for them to express their ideas as confidently as their peers, and it is also difficult for them to feel happy without scruple.

2. Dare not express your needs

Because of the repeated emphasis on poor family conditions, children will feel the pressure and heaviness of life prematurely and get used to suppressing their own needs. For example, if they are ill, they dare not take part in any activities. As long as they ask their parents for money, they will feel guilty and blame themselves. As long as they spend money, they will be uneasy.

3. Overcompensation

Many children who grow up in a "crying poor" environment will try their best to make up for it when they grow up. Once isolated, unsatisfied children are like a dry desert without a heart.

Feel unworthy

When children receive too much education to cry for poverty, they will think they don't deserve a high-quality life when they grow up. Even if they earn a lot of money, they still feel insecure and can't make up for the hole in their hearts. They will feel guilty when spending money, so they will hoard all their money and give themselves more security.