Open the communication circle
As parents, we should open the circle of communication for our children and let them discover that there are actually many excellent people in this world. This can divert children's attention to love, make children overcome the spiritual emptiness when they are young, and reduce the huge fluctuations and impulses brought about by physiological changes in adolescence. At the same time, it cultivates children's various abilities and will be proud of being a useful person in the future.
Scientific understanding of physical development
Guide children to scientifically understand how their physical development, physiology and psychological changes occur. When children understand the mechanism of some things, their psychology will be practical, without panic, anxiety and fear. Children at this stage need to know these unknown things.
Identify with children's feelings
Identify with children's feelings. The better the relationship with children, the simpler the processor. It is useless to criticize and preach blindly. The key is to talk. Without a good parent-child relationship, education will fail Most adolescent children's puppy love is not really about puppy love, but a physiological need, so it is a relief to guide children how to face these situations correctly.
Induce and urge children to learn.
In learning, if children can be induced to learn, better results will be achieved. For children, the less scolding and blame, the better, more care and more guidance. No matter how other children behave, you only need to be responsible for your own children, even if it is different from many people's handling methods.