Before going to bed last night, I happened to see Mr. Wu's blog "Metamorphosis × Butterfly Metamorphosis × Transmutation", and I suddenly realized. I recall the summer vacation, as long as time permits, we will accompany her to play everywhere, enjoy a beautiful holiday and feel all kinds of human and natural environment. The whole person is in a very relaxed and comfortable state. At that time, the children were really in a state of free-range. As long as we can persist in completing our holiday homework every day, we will let go. Now that school is starting, they need to devote themselves to intense study, and this state seems to have changed a little. I think even adults need some time to adapt to such changes, and I will feel tired and slack. This is a state that everyone calls "holiday syndrome", let alone children! So I'm thinking, what I need to do in the near future is to spend more time with my children, talk to her about classroom experiences and interesting things, help her relax, and accompany her to read extracurricular books, hoping to enter a relatively tense learning state as soon as possible and spend this extraordinary period smoothly and quickly.
These are my personal thoughts in the first week of school, and they can also be regarded as an apology and summary of my baby daughter's temper. I have written so much for your reference and encouragement!
Education Weekly 2 Mozi is a freshman in Class Two, Grade Two, Experimental Primary School Attached to Petroleum. Although I understand that the new environment is challenging for children and I really want to help them adapt to the new study life as soon as possible, I still can't understand Mozi's inner experience.
From a certain point of view, Mozi is a very good boy. He gets up every morning to brush his teeth, wash his face, comb his hair and have breakfast, and almost never needs to be reminded and urged by adults. Do your homework when you get home, but you still need proper tips when you recite your homework.
One day in the middle of the week, Mozi went to practice playing the piano after finishing his homework. She came up to me and said, mom, I'm under too much pressure. I have to rush to do my homework, and I have to practice the piano after I finish my homework. I'm so tired. As she muttered, she burst into tears and began to cry. I was a little confused, didn't know how to respond to her, and didn't know what she really wanted, so I looked at her with waiting eyes for a while. There are more and more tears, and the crying is getting louder and louder. I said, cry, cry, cry when you are sad. Her crying increased by several decibels. Dad walked over with his mobile phone and said, this is Bel Canto. Let me record it for you. Mozi couldn't help laughing, but she kept crying loudly. Sister smiled at her sister and handed her a tissue. When Mozi heard her wild crying and saw that her parents could allow her to express her emotions, she stopped crying and her emotions gradually calmed down. She said, Mom, when will you take me to practice the piano after dinner?
I am thinking that many times, older children cry or lose their temper, but they are actually sending a signal to their parents for help, rather than deliberately trying to fight against their parents. Busy parents are too easy to ignore the urgent needs of their children, and being ignored for a long time will easily lead to emotional outbursts. Therefore, when the child loses his temper, don't simply reprimand the child or compromise directly, but give the child emotional care without lowering the requirements for the child.
Education Weekly 3 has been reading excellent works of parents and children for two weeks, and I can't help feeling a lot and thinking a lot. By contrast, I can't help feeling ashamed. The summer vacation slipped away like this, the plan was hardly completed, and the children's gains were even minimal.
Any excuse is powerless, and children can't wait to grow up. There can be no more excuses for "high buildings rise from the ground", starting today, starting now. Arrange time reasonably and leave enough time to help children develop good habits and lay a good foundation for better letting go in the future. Guide the children well today, and don't wait until the children are older to stop listening to us. At that time, they will be even more at a loss.
In fact, today's children are very smart, and they are very receptive at this age. The most important thing is persistence.
I read "Education of Love" with my children again, and asked them to dictate their compositions with the names of the first three articles, which was very effective. Many times, it's not the children's fault, but our parents are a little lazy and miss the good opportunity of guidance. Look at the 400 books in the school year. A book that thick is recited under the guidance of the teacher, which shows that dripping water wears away the stone.
For the children's bright tomorrow, let's join hands to accompany the children's growth!
Four education weekly magazines have passed in a blink of an eye, so it's time to write a weekly diary for parents. Children are like saplings that grow every day, with new changes every week. Mainly in the following aspects:
First, be good at communicating with parents.
We go to and from school every day, but the topics are rich. Last semester, my mother asked you something about your school, such as: What happened in class today (whether you are happy or not)? How was your lunch? How's your performance? You always simply answer "I don't remember" and occasionally talk about the class. Now, every day after school, you talk to your mother about your class and your performance at school. Such as: XXX was praised, XXX was criticized the most, XXX made the greatest progress, and so on.
Second, bad habits have decreased.
Through the communication with teacher Li, my mother learned that the problem of talking too much has gradually decreased since this week. The teacher also said that there needs to be a process, and you promised your mother that you would get rid of it. My mother also believes that you can do it.
Third, can take the initiative to complete homework and do some housework.
After school, I can finish my homework voluntarily without my mother's repeated urging, but the speed of finishing my homework needs to be accelerated. You can take the initiative to help your mother do some housework within your power. I saw my mother sweeping the floor and took the initiative to sweep it. When I saw my mother picking vegetables, I took the initiative to help her pick them. Every night, you wash your underwear and socks yourself. My mother wants you to insist. What makes our mother and son most happy is that you ran to the kitchen after finishing your homework that day and saw your mother packing jiaozi. You asked her, "Can I pack jiaozi?" ? Mom replied, "Yes." While mom was talking, you picked up a noodle and put the stuffing in it. Unexpectedly, you didn't even pack the first jiaozi. Mom didn't criticize you, but taught you how to wrap jiaozi. Seeing your careful observation (really cute), it is getting better and better. You also told your mother that by studying jiaozi, you learned a truth: "As long as you keep working hard, you can succeed."
Fourth, I am very devoted to what I am interested in.
Mom bought you an English +CD course. After finishing your homework, you volunteer to read an English book and listen to tapes. Simple sentences with cute cartoons are very attractive to you, and the emotions on your face keep changing and have been integrated into the book! In this way, I concentrated on reading for more than an hour and read all the books in one breath. This has never happened before.
These achievements are attributed to the results of personal reading, and the sudden change comes from the lengthening of reading time every day. Before you finished your homework, I read you no more than three short stories, and sometimes you still listen to them with relish, and the story is over. My mother changed her strategy this week. As long as you listen, even if mom is thirsty, she will continue to read to you, so that you can fall asleep slowly in this atmosphere. . . The great gains brought by parent-child reading have strengthened my determination to accompany my children to study. As long as I can persist, I believe that children will develop good reading habits in a subtle way. I would like to be a child's guide, walk into the world of books with my children, and grow and progress with my children in parent-child reading!
Education Weekly 5 was on duty at work today and saw Xue Ruiping's notes on education. Teacher Xue mentioned that every parent should write an education weekly diary for their children, because children need the care and help of parents with educational connotation. It's just that I have a lot of experience to say, so let's get started.
It was already dark after work on Friday. I hurried back to Grandma Puppy's house, grabbed two meals in a hurry and set off with Puppy. In the evening, she had a vocal lesson. There was a terrible traffic jam on the road, and when she got downstairs to the teacher's house, she was already asleep. Push her up, rub her eyes and go upstairs hand in hand with me. The song I practiced this week is "Doll Drives Duck". After singing, the teacher praised her: "Relax naturally. Not nervous. I have a good voice and a bright future. " The teacher is a vocal music scoring judge in Shandong. She is very experienced and good at encouraging children. She was very happy to hear that. Singing songs on the way back, how important the teacher's affirmation and encouragement are to a child!
When sleeping at night, the pupils said, "Mom, I can finally have a day off tomorrow." Think about the child being too tired? I can't rest tomorrow. I have to go to art and dance. I haven't finished my homework. Should interest classes give up some? Going to primary school is mainly to cultivate children's interest in learning and help them develop good study habits. If she pushes too hard, she will be very tired and bored, and lose interest and self-confidence in learning. Is it not worth the loss?
She was going to learn dance on Saturday afternoon, but she said she couldn't go because of her leg pain. The student came back from the last dance and asked her how she was. She said it was good and the teacher praised her. The little cousin who studied with her immediately exposed her, saying that she would never learn a movement, and the teacher made her cry. I think I'm afraid of difficulties and don't want to go.
Students always report good news instead of bad news. It seems that she never came home from kindergarten and said that the teacher criticized her or had problems with the children. Ask her anything and always answer, "OK. Good teacher, good boy. " Her father and I are still very happy, and we feel that the child is full of atmosphere and there is no small matter.
However, after school, I feel more and more that this is not a good thing. She basically doesn't come back to talk about her school situation, and even if she does, it's too big to grasp the details. Some things are known only after communicating with the teacher. I really don't know whether she is too big-hearted or too proud to say anything or other reasons. If you can't open your heart to the person whose parents love her the most, doesn't that mean there is something wrong with our education?
Before going out this morning, I also reflected with my dad whether I exaggerated some small achievements made by my primary school students to the point where my children could not afford to lose. For example, after she ran for the squadron, the whole family, including grandma, grandpa, grandma and aunt, were very happy and asked questions excitedly. And am I too concerned about the results, such as why I didn't get an A+ in the exam? Won a few small fruits or something. Will it make sensitive her feel that if she doesn't do well in the exam or has few small fruits, her mother will be unhappy, so there is some pressure?
Educating children is really a difficult problem. I read a multiple-choice question today, saying which child would you want as a parent? People who are physically and mentally healthy but not admitted to the university; The other one was admitted to Peking University and committed suicide the next day.
The healthy growth of children is always more important than the face of parents. Chi Li, a female writer, hopes that her daughter will be "physically and mentally healthy and happy." This is also my hope for primary school students.