China's parents have a mentality of "expecting their children to succeed" and "expecting their daughters to succeed". In order to let children learn well, many parents follow the family education tradition of "learning early and learning more". There is a saying that parents often say: "Never let your child lose at the starting line. "As a result, young children are sent to various cram schools by their parents in order to increase their chances of winning in future study and employment competition in the' rush'.

In fact, these excellent qualities, such as diligence, kindness and optimism, are what children in the process of forming the three views need most. The wealth of a wealthy family may be exhausted, and the so-called resources may be scattered, but the excellent qualities deeply implanted in a child's brain from an early age will accompany and help him or her throughout his or her life.

A correct idea can help children make more correct decisions and make them better. Therefore, the real starting line for children is not only the material living conditions, but also the establishment of an ideological concept. It is more important to give a child a correct concept than to give him superior living conditions.

Life is a marathon, it doesn't matter how many steps you take at the start, what you care about is the continuous motivation and ability. Parents don't want their children to lose at the starting line, so they hope that kindergartens can teach more knowledge. But education is not only to teach children pinyin and arithmetic, but also to cultivate habits and abilities.

All these can give children the motivation to succeed in life.

The starting point of success is faith, and the end point of success is persistence!

The starting line is a starting point, which can be kindergarten, after pregnancy, when I just entered primary school, when I want to start doing something, and so on.

Any place you want to start can be the starting line.

As the saying goes, "caring for the elderly at the age of three" kindergarten is the stage in which children's living habits and study habits are formed. If you get up on time, eat on time, go to bed on time, do your own thing and plan your daily study tasks from the age of three, then you won't worry about getting up in the morning, finishing your homework at night and falling asleep on time when you are in primary school.

I have a colleague. When my son was 3 years old, he began to ask his children to tidy up his shoes when he got home. In the long run, children have developed a good habit of tidying up. Besides putting your belongings in order, you should also guide your parents to put them away.

A few days ago, I read a book called Deliberate Practice, which revealed the secrets of outstanding achievers, summarized six characteristics of deliberate practice, as well as three modes: music mode, chess mode and sports mode, and especially introduced some people who have achieved world-class achievements through deliberate practice. Genius comes from deliberate practice!

Therefore, when we want our children to do something, it is natural to form a habit, rather than deliberately practicing from an early age. I remember when my son was a child, I often provided him with some animal books. As a result, I found his interest in animal and plant research, and now I have studied earth ecology.

Starting line, regardless of age, no need to entangle the start!

Parents are the starting line for children. Parents should help their children develop reading habits and improve their literacy ability when they are young. If these two aspects are done well, the children will be even worse when they enter primary school, and they really won at the starting line. And these two aspects are precisely the places that kindergartens do not pay attention to.

1 Kindergarten is not the starting line for children, but for parents.

Parents are the starting line for children.

Parents' vision, height and parenting style have a greater influence on their children.

Having a baby is no joke.

From pregnancy preparation, to pregnancy, to delivery, many things will be different if they are not done well during this period.

For example, the relationship between parents and the mood during pregnancy will have an impact on the child's future personality; Nutrition during pregnancy is very important for children's development; Parents' IQ and height also have a great influence on their children. These difficult conditions will be very important for children in the future.

After birth, how parents influence their children in the family in the first three years is also crucial.

For example, what are the economic conditions, and can children have richer experiences? Have you talked to your children more so that they can master more vocabulary? Family relationship and husband-wife relationship have great influence on children's psychology.

These hard conditions are given by parents, and children will enter kindergarten after 3 years. Those with good family conditions go to better kindergartens, and those with poor family conditions go to worse kindergartens. This is still supported by the family.

Therefore, kindergarten is not the starting line.

Be a good parent, and then consider kindergarten.

If you want your children to develop well, then you should take responsibility and be an excellent parent.

How? One thing to remember: what kind of person do you want your child to be, what kind of person do you try to be first.

If you don't want your children to play with their mobile phones, don't play by yourself; I don't want your children to be rude. You should be polite to others yourself. ...

Children always imitate their parents. Parents should pay attention to their words and deeds and set a good example for their children.

When you do it yourself, when the child reaches the age of kindergarten, you can choose a kindergarten that meets the temperament of the child and consider all aspects for the child. Mainly safety and teachers' quality.

Dear, life has no beginning, only an end.

Kindergarten is the starting line for children. But it is not the initial starting line-children's initial starting line is parents and family.

After the child is born, it is a blank sheet of paper. His appearance is the result of the interaction of parents, family and society.

A moment's success or failure is meaningless. When children are young, they pay attention to physical health and character cultivation, and knowledge is inexhaustible. Few people remember or even care about his performance in finding a job in kindergarten or making friends when he grows up. So, dear parents, don't worry, the growth of children is a long-term work, and I am willing to accompany you slowly!

Children's starting line is not at their own feet, but at their parents' feet or parents' feet. Some children were born with golden keys, and they have won at the starting line.

I don't want her to be tired, as long as she is healthy.

If the starting line is not the starting line, I don't expect her to be a twins and let her stand up for herself.

Be happy and be a kind person. Don't bother others. When you grow up, you can find lovers you like.

What's the point of asking for money when I'm old? What's the use of letting children earn face for me?

I'll be content to see her more.

Children's starting line is their parents. Parents' knowledge, personality, upbringing, family atmosphere, social circle. These are the starting lines for children.

In fact, advanced education is not good for children, and parents usually turn a blind eye to the disadvantages. Mimi reminds parents that if they really love their children, they should not let them enter kindergarten too early.

What are the disadvantages of going to kindergarten in advance?

Generally speaking, children who go to kindergarten are all over 3 years old. Many parents think that their children are only two or three months away from the age of three, so there should be no big problem. But this is not the case. Every day is the same when children are young. The age is similar, but the size is obviously different.

And from the psychological point of view of children, they prefer to play with older children. If there is a younger child in the class, other children are likely to ignore him or even bully him. Even if the teacher can alleviate this problem, it will have a certain degree of negative impact on children's psychology.

In addition, children under the age of 3 actually need their parents to accompany them to cultivate a sense of security. If we are forced to separate at this time, it will be an advanced education for parents, but it will affect the psychological development of children and eventually lead to a lack of security and self-confidence.

What should parents input to their children? Don't let the children lose at the starting line? No, but the correct values, what you are and what your children will be. Parents' words and deeds have the greatest influence on their children. When children grow up, what you have given them will be returned to you bit by bit.

Don't lose at the starting line, it's just the temptation of the merchants. If you believe it, you can pay for all kinds of classes for your children, but in the end? Is your child really good?

Children's starting line should be a healthy mentality, cheerful personality, strong curiosity and lively communication skills.

For the rich, money is spent, and children's hobbies can be cultivated, that is, winning at the starting line.

However, there are many working-class families. Even if children have hobbies, don't blindly choose some to cultivate.

However, you need not be discouraged. Children's education is indeed the key, but the hard work and correct education are the key.

What exactly do you mean by winning? Is it moral, intellectual, physical and artistic work? How many children will grow up to be omnipotent, although as adults we all hope so.

A person's growth process is very tortuous, not only because you educated and studied well when you were a child, but also won later. The college entrance examination is coming, and you didn't do well. Did you lose? It is often said that the college entrance examination is not the only way out. Go out of society and become the top scholar, don't you!

When we are old, will the children stay with us for a long time? Or can I give you a lot of money while I'm away? Can children's kindergarten education predict the future?

Where do you say the starting line starts? In the same industry, some people have been doing business all their lives, indifferent, not worried about eating, and can't live. And some people become monks halfway and have a strong understanding, so a Ma Yun came out alive.

So, you said that kindergarten is the only way out if you want your children to win at the starting line?