First, move to the northeast.
1959, Pinghu Reservoir in Guan Yi Commune, Liangshan, Shandong Province was managed, and in response to the call of the state to support the Great Northern Wilderness, hundreds of people were led to immigrate to Wumahe, Yichun City, Heilongjiang Province (men were under the control of grandpa and women were under the control of grandma). Grandma is 19-year-old president of the people's commune advanced society, not a manual worker. As a worker, I just punish evil and promote good to offend the villain.
Second, don't bend over for power.
At that time, the villagers in Shandong were furious because they were stopped from eating leaves by the government, which reflected the condolences of their superiors. As a result, politicians have to send food and vegetables door to door to the villagers who immigrated from Shandong within three days, and repair the cold houses, otherwise they will be dismissed. From then on, I became enemies with villains and became workers. The reason is that they can't all be cadres.
Third, a wise decision.
Grandma brought a half-carriage to carry food and clothes. Buy all the immigration subsidies and all the savings into food and clothing. All kinds of cloth are bundled, grain is bagged, only sesame is bagged, and everything else is imaginary. Our family is worth more than a dozen others. It is precisely because of the wise decision of Mu that the whole family was saved from hunger after three years of natural disasters.
We should not only take care of our own family, but also take care of others. On the way to the northeast, free food and dry food are distributed to the immigrant people. After the famine, I learned that my aunt's family was starving because there was no food. I mailed money and food, but I also invited them to my home. Therefore, there is an aunt's house to go to (spring goes to winter), and when she comes back, the ship comes back with food supplies. Until now, I am still grateful to my grandmother.
Fourth, the family atmosphere (good popularity)
Grandma is very popular, and we have lived a life of food and clothing since childhood. Neighbors help to make clothes with hand needles and spread pancakes with grain. She has been busy with her work. At present, no one in our family can reach grandma's level.
Five, absolute ability and strength
Grandma's mental arithmetic ability since enlightenment is unparalleled. My second aunt and my mother were jealous with her when they were young. They use pens, and basking in the sun is always the first.
When I was a child, I listened to stories told by my mother. I remember that although my grandmother can't read, when the director of women sends and receives the household registration book, as long as one person reads it in order and puts it in order, it will never be wrong or missed. The memory is absolutely superior. Grandma told grandma's story, which means that you can sing the lyrics, tone and singing word for word after going to the opera and listening to it once. Therefore, it is speculated that there is genetic inheritance in the family.
According to my second aunt and mother (listening to grandma), when my aunt and uncle were young, my grandparents were both cadres in Shandong, so they were very busy at work. I don't have time to take care of my children, so the state specially sent someone to take care of my grandparents with Uncle menstruation (the earliest nanny), the form of national salary distribution, January 20-30 yuan (simply taking care of Uncle menstruation). Later, due to meritorious service with children, I became a regular worker and changed jobs. Grandma's working ability has been fully recognized.
Sixth, never let your child be wronged.
When I was a child, my brother stole money from my family 1 yuan, and my aunt and uncle beat and scolded my brother. Grandma went to educate them and said not to talk about children like that. Because Uncle menstruation is embarrassed to educate his children. Grandma went to his house to criticize and educate her younger brother. And 1 yuan asked the little brother to come back, and told him to go to grandma if they bullied him, and grandma would go to them. Then grandma pondered this matter for a long time and asked my little brother if he was bullied again every three days.
When Yang Guang was a child, he was bullied by other people's older children in the park and educated by his grandfather. Grandma went to find someone else's grandfather, told the truth, and ran away with the children.
At different stages of my work development, I will often share my work insights with my grandma, and grandma will remind me and give me support at the right time. When I graduated, during my pregnancy, I was more anxious because of changes in my work and career. My grandmother and I talked most about my brother, brother and aunt. They all want me to be good, as long as I am good. Call your brother and aunt for help if necessary. They will certainly help me. Grandma gave me confidence.
About ten years ago, my aunt had a good friend who quarreled with her husband because of the mistress problem and was beaten by her husband. In the process of dealing with this problem, she had a whim. My aunt asked Mrs. Li, what should I do if this happens to you and my girl? Mrs. Li asked the girl if she was mistaken first. A: That's right, girl. Mrs. Li: That's easy. I'll call my son first. Q: Why? Mrs. Li: Let my son beat my uncle first. I have to speak for that girl. I asked again: what should I do after being beaten? Mrs. Li: Then divorce! Continue to ask: What if a divorced girl has no house to live in? Mrs. Li: Stay with me! Q: But you don't have an independent house either. You share a house with your son and wife, accounting for only half of the property rights. Mrs. Li: That's easy. I will tell my wife that my girl lives in my half, not yours! The whole process is crisp and neat, without hesitation. Exclaimed: Mrs. Li, you are really awesome! Being a girl is absolutely full of confidence for you!
Seven, behind-the-scenes strategist
According to my second aunt, although my grandfather was in charge when I was a child, I always came back at night to discuss with my grandmother. Grandma gave him advice and gave orders, and grandpa followed the idea the next day. Everything is going well. They all call it good. When grandpa was alive, he said that grandma had always been his behind-the-scenes strategist.
Eight. Expectations for future generations
My grandmother likes to burn incense and worship Buddha best, and pray for her children and grandchildren every day. Every son, daughter-in-law, daughter-in-law, grandson, granddaughter, grandson, great-grandson, great-grandson and great-granddaughter cannot be left behind. Looking forward to studying every day, my work is getting better and better, and my career is rich in financial resources. Everyone should be safe and smooth. ...