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For modern education, does "the son is not the godfather's fault" still apply? Why?
A famous saying from Saint Amethyst, "It is the father's fault that children don't teach", expounded the importance of family education for the first time. If we understand the latter as "lax teaching and lazy teachers", it tells us that family education and school education should be carried out simultaneously, which is now called the combination of home and school. Here, it is necessary to understand that "it is the father's fault that the child does not teach" is the child's parents. They are the first teachers of the child, and their words and deeds play an irreplaceable role in the growth of the child. Therefore, parents should teach their children by example at home. Without one, your education is incomplete and flawed. "Children don't teach, fathers teach" only emphasizes the importance of family education, which is an important part of children's education. Children's education cannot be completely dependent on family or school. Only "strict parents and strict teachers" can bring up children.

1. Parents have a natural responsibility to educate their children. With a few exceptions, most children spend a lot of time with their parents before they become adults. Parents are children's first teachers, and families are children's first classes. The duty of parents is to provide positive education and guidance to their children at any time. Whether parents do their duty is extremely important to children. If something goes wrong with a child before adulthood, the first responsible person is the parents.

Parents are role models for children to learn and imitate. Parents' words and deeds have played an exemplary role in children, and this exemplary role is carried out unconsciously. Therefore, parents at home should not speak ill and do bad things in front of their children.

3. What saplings to plant, what fruits to plant, what seeds to sow and what flowers to bloom. The child's mind is blank. If parents want their children to grow up, they should plant positive and youthful seeds such as integrity, kindness, gratitude, love and patriotism in their children's hearts, and then work hard to educate and pay attention to their children. Only in this way can children become useful talents in society.

First of all, it is parents' bounden duty to educate their children well. Children born in this world are like a blank sheet of paper, without good and evil, and infants in infancy have no cognition. At this time, education should be inspired by sound actions, and children can do some simple imitation actions. Since it is imitation, parents are required to teach these movements and pay attention to whether these movements are recognized by the public and transmit positive energy signals. Otherwise, it will be difficult to correct these behaviors of children in the future. At the stage when children can listen and speak, parents should teach or spread polite language to their children to avoid speaking uncivilized language in front of them. Children can't talk, they can only imitate. If older children have some critical thinking ability, parents should teach them some simple truths, distinguish good from bad, and guide them patiently. It is said that parents are children's first teachers, and their words and deeds will affect children little by little. Therefore, it is very important for parents to set an example and play their role.

Second, family education, in the final analysis, is taught by parents. This kind of education can neither be stopped nor relaxed. Even if children step into the society or have made great achievements, parents should nag and remind them in time to avoid serious consequences caused by differences in concepts. In today's society, some families lack education for their children, which leads many children to go astray. Some parents have their own problems, and what they instill in their children is not positive. Some parents will teach their children some extreme things, such as children fighting with other children, and children will suffer some losses. Instead of knowing the situation in detail, parents should communicate with each other to solve problems and simply teach their children a word. If I am asked to go back, this method of fighting violence with violence will undoubtedly sow the seeds of hatred for children from an early age and encourage them to develop bad behaviors that dare to run amok. This is very terrible. Some parents lack patience in educating their children. Once a child makes a mistake, he will either beat and scold. This kind of education is very debatable.

In short, no matter what social, economic and social development, it has never been the godfather's fault. Parents are the first teachers of the children. In family and social education, parents and family education are in a dominant position, and education is indispensable. Parents must set an example. If parents all over the world do their duty to educate their children, the awareness of the whole society to abide by laws and regulations will be greatly enhanced, and our teenagers will have great potential.