The answer is that everything matters. Because the harmonious relationship between a person and his mother will affect the happiness of his children's future marriage; Whether the relationship with the father is harmonious will affect whether the child is brave and confident and whether the child will succeed in his future career.

How do parents reach an agreement on their children's education?

1, keep the consistent education direction.

A good family environment should be that parents have a clear consensus on parenting styles, so as to ensure that the whole family is moving in the same direction. This does not mean that mom and dad have the same attitude and views on everything, but we must keep the general direction of education consistent.

For young children, the mind is not mature enough, and the establishment of the concept of right and wrong needs a clear standard. In other words, we need to clearly accept what is right and wrong from the words and deeds of adults. In the period when the sense of rules and the concept of right and wrong are established, the clear and consistent concept output of family educators is more conducive to children's direct cognition and acceptance. Especially in today's prevailing Xiong Haizi, it is what parents should do to export beautiful moral qualities, correct values and outlook on life.

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2. Respect each other and safeguard the prestige of both sides.

In fact, it is very important for parents to respect each other, whether it is educating their children or other things in life. If either party doesn't respect the other party, it will lead to the prestige of this party in the eyes of children greatly reduced. A father's best love for his children is to love his mother. A mother's best love for her children is to appreciate and admire her father.

Only parents with authority can educate their children well. Once parents lose prestige in front of their children, it is difficult for children to listen to their parents' educational views. Therefore, in order for children to better receive their parents' education, both parents should respect and care about each other, so as to better safeguard each other's prestige.

3. Communicate effectively and avoid confrontation.

It is normal for couples to have different views on different things, but attacking each other in front of the children will make the children feel at a loss. If parents really disagree greatly, don't argue in front of their children. It's best to avoid children when discussing. Because parents reduce conflicts, they do less harm to their children. Avoiding conflict does not mean that regardless of this matter, we can find a suitable opportunity to have a positive discussion with each other in a tentative tone and attitude afterwards. If you really can't avoid children, you can discuss it calmly and exchange views sincerely. For example, you can affirm the advantages of one side's point of view, or you can put forward your own opinions and suggestions reasonably, so as to reach an agreement.