However, the results are always unsatisfactory.
Su Xun changed the way of education. Whenever the two sons are having fun in the yard and have no intention of studying at all, the father hides in a corner where they can see and secretly reads a book.
Two sons discovered his unusual behavior and asked Su Xun what book he was reading. Su Xun deliberately didn't answer, but also hid the book mysteriously.
The two sons were curious and thought that their father must have some good books and didn't want to share them, so they wouldn't read them.
Driven by strong curiosity, Su Zhe and Su Shi secretly took out their books and read them carefully while their father was away.
Over time, I formed a good habit of reading.
This is the story of Su Jiasan and his son in Eight Masters in Tang and Song Dynasties.
When tough methods such as persuasion education or corporal punishment education failed to achieve results, Su Xun chose a more subtle way, using children's curiosity to guide them to identify with what they did from the heart, thus quietly educating children.
Last year, a very hot photo was circulated on the Internet. A mother and son are on the subway. The mother is holding her son, and she is fascinated by a book. My son is also absorbed in reading his picture book.
This is the power of example, and the example is the south wind, which gently makes your children consciously obey.
Instead of forcing children to be what you expect, it is better to be what you expect! When you blow gently like a gentle south wind, you will find that the child will be well received by your expectations of him!