The Biography of Planting Camels is the work of Liu Zongyuan, a writer in the Tang Dynasty. This is a biography with both allegorical and political colors, and it is also a fable story with strong allegory. Through the narration of Guo Tuo's way of planting trees, it shows that "the nature of following trees" is the method of "planting trees" and infers the truth of "educating people". ?

Guo Tuo's occupation is planting trees, and all the rich people engaged in garden sightseeing and fruit trading in Chang 'an are vying to take him home to support him. None of the trees planted by camels survived, but they all grew tall and luxuriant, bearing many fruits early. Others are always imitating him, but the result is always unsatisfactory. ?

Someone asked him why he planted trees well. He replied, "I planted trees not to make them live long and grow fast, but to adapt to the nature of trees and realize my habits." When planting trees, the roots should be stretched, the soil should be evenly cultivated, the soil under the roots should be the original soil for cultivating seedlings, and the rammed soil should be solid. Do this well and don't move again. ? Be as careful as a child when planting, and put it aside like throwing it away after planting, so that the nature of the tree can be preserved and the habit can be realized.

(1) Cultivate habits and give children soil suitable for growth.

Think about it, raising children is like planting trees. When I first entered primary school, I just started planting trees, giving children suitable soil and cultivating their good habits.

Like the habit of independence. Nowadays, parents spoil their children so much that they accompany their children to do homework, send them to school and accompany them to extracurricular classes ... so that they never washed clothes and cooked once when they were teenagers, so they must accomplish nothing when they grow up. Let children do what they can, and let children become more and more organized in the process of doing things.

The most fundamental problem of planting trees is the root. The root of our education for children is our family. Let children learn to be independent, learn to take responsibility, learn to face challenges, do a good job, and then naturally wait for their growth.

There are always some parents who are unwilling or afraid to let go. In fact, we can imagine what is the worst result of letting go. If the clothes can't be cleaned, wash them again. In the process of washing again, the child learned to wash clothes. Behind the mistake is the right. Never let children experience mistakes. How do children know what is right? Don't replace their growth with their so-called diligence.

? (2) Learn to let go and conform to nature.

? With the growth of children's age, we should let go at the right time, care at the right time, and take proper care, enough is enough, just right. It's not that "you love too much and worry too much", the better the tree grows, the faster it grows.

Let children do their own homework and help them when they need help, instead of pointing fingers and telling them what to do. This will only make children have no opinions and increase their dependence. Let the children wear whatever they want. Today they know it's cold, and tomorrow they will know how to add clothes. Children don't want to eat, and it's good to experience the feeling of hunger. If you know what it feels like today, you will feel particularly fragrant when you eat it tomorrow ... these are all necessary experiences for children to grow up, just as trees have to stand the test of wind, frost, rain and snow during their growth.

Every child has the desire to be a good child, and every child has the potential to be a good child. As long as we conform to the child's nature, treat the child with the standards of a good child, trust the child, and the child will demand the same from himself, and he will grow into a good child.

Sometimes, we are too eager for children's success, expect too much, rush into action, over-educate, and it is quite common to "pull out the seedlings and encourage them". It violates the law of children's physical and mental development, "haste makes waste." Not only does it fail to achieve the expected results, but it will make children feel tired of learning and lose their enthusiasm for learning. Some even make children suffer from physical or psychological diseases.

The key to successful tree planting is to respect the nature of tree growth. Then, the key to successfully cultivating and educating children should be to respect and conform to the laws of children's physical and mental development, and impose parents' subjective wishes on children, which will not only not promote children's physical and mental healthy growth, but also cause harm to children and lead to complete failure of education.

In fact, trees and people are the same. If you spoil it too much, it will cultivate its inertia. If you often water and fertilize with him, his heel will not go deep into the soil, but will only roll on the shallow surface. How can this withstand the wind and rain? Don't give life a suitable hotbed, only the disaster of life can be born on the hotbed of life. If you want the tree of life to be deeply rooted and indomitable, you can't give it too much water and fertilizer, forcing it to win glory for itself and take root for itself.